Is it okay to put family first? (Response to royal family stuff)

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And visit photos like the above add to my bull pucky response that she didn't know who Harry was.
Anyway, it's a new day. I hope they are happier living a low key private life.

I don't understand why this picture is proof that the woman was conniving from her teen years to land a prince and then whisk him away to Canada. She was on vacation, touring and visiting sites so of course there's a picture of her in front of a fairly famous institution. There's a very large stack of photos of me in front of famous places, some places I wanted to be and some I got dragged by parents to and then forced to smile in front of.
 
I don't understand why this picture is proof that the woman was conniving from her teen years to land a prince and then whisk him away to Canada. She was on vacation, touring and visiting sites so of course there's a picture of her in front of a fairly famous institution. There's a very large stack of photos of me in front of famous places, some places I wanted to be and some I got dragged by parents to and then forced to smile in front of.
I never said it was "proof she was conniving". But claims were made that Meghan didn't know what royal life entailed and that she didn't know what she was getting herself into, etc. If she visited London and Buckingham Palace as a teenager (not even as a young child), as we see in this picture that she did, then she had to have SOME idea of what it was all about, at minimum.
 

I don't understand why this picture is proof that the woman was conniving from her teen years to land a prince and then whisk him away to Canada. She was on vacation, touring and visiting sites so of course there's a picture of her in front of a fairly famous institution. There's a very large stack of photos of me in front of famous places, some places I wanted to be and some I got dragged by parents to and then forced to smile in front of.

Why lie about knowing who he is? She admired his mother. Harry’s looks haven’t changed a great deal since the funeral.
 
What I don't understand about this theory is the requirement that people must "know" someone in order to like or dislike them. I don't find it realistic. As others have mentioned, opinions are formed based on lots of things. In Meghan's case, as I said before, people loved her. Just look at how many rejoiced at their engagement (those pictures sold LOTS of magazines), tuned into their wedding (again, same, as well as souveniers)), and anxiously awaited the birth of their child, etc. It was only after more and more information filtered out that a dislike started to set in. And I don't believe it was all just because of the "tabloids". We had enough evidence directly from Meghan and Harry themselves via pictures and interviews and such.

I was actually pretty neutral for a long time about her, even though the situation with her father felt very sad to me (knowing he might not be here much longer), but when she said nobody cared about her in October during the African tour interview, I had a very hard time swallowing that given the irony of the situation with him (which I already posted about a few days ago, i.e. via their conversations that are now part of public court records because of HER lawsuit). He'd come close losing his life (no, it wasn't just made up!) in part due to the stress he was under from her sudden and immense notoriety, yet she hadn't gone to see him or reach out to him, only criticized him. That put me over to the Dislike side, and seeing her in food kitchens does nothing to change that view for me given that she still hasn't seen her Dad nor introduced him to his own grandchild, etc. Her race has nothing to do with it whatsoever, and really, it feels insulting to hear that when there are so many other factors involved. (Not to mention that I personally don't care about the color of someone's skin or their religion or their preferences or any of that; I only care if someone is a good person. You and I as nurses know and live this as we take care of everyone to the best of our ability regardless.) So I don't get the "have to know" part. (I could say more about the hatred we see in our own press for people we don't personally know, but I'll leave it at that.)

1) One can dislike a person, but that doesn't mean one should gossip or speak horribly of that person and make mean, derogatory judgmental statements.. Posting horrible things about them online is a form of bullying in my opinion.

2) Now, if you aren't racist, then you should have no reason to feel like I was calling you racist. I was speaking of the comments on the tabloid sites. There are plenty of them. Even before the wedding, I remember people (in media and in my own life) saying this girl was too trashy and low class to marry Harry....normally that was said by some of the most dysfunctional people I know, btw. At the time, the girl had a career and plenty of her own money. Why else would so many find her low class?

3) As for the situation with Meghan's father. We can only speculate, even with his interviews. There's obviously been some issues. He was still offered to walk MM down the aisle even after the staged photo mess, yet he still wouldn't go (no evidence of heart attack or surgery). It sounds like he was offered plenty of guidance from the royal family also.

4) I get that this man can use some help. He shows all the characteristics of medical non-compliance, depression, poor body image and a few other things. I truly believe the RF's staff reached out to him to counsel him on dealing with this new fame and were ready to hold his hand in wedding preparations. MM reached out too, but he just didn't want the help and instead let himself be taken advantage of by his insane older daughter and then became as vindictive as her. Yes, we are both nurses (and I can tell by your posts, you are an incredible nurse). But we also know we can only do so much when someone else doesn't want and refuses the help. I've dealt with that as a nurse and in my own family. You could only let that sort of attitude drag you down and get in your way so much.
 
Why lie about knowing who he is? She admired his mother. Harry’s looks haven’t changed a great deal since the funeral.

To me, the RF stars come and go. We went years in between a funeral and a wedding not really paying attention to them (on this side of the pond at least). I wouldn't have recognized the guy either.
 
I never said it was "proof she was conniving". But claims were made that Meghan didn't know what royal life entailed and that she didn't know what she was getting herself into, etc. If she visited London and Buckingham Palace as a teenager (not even as a young child), as we see in this picture that she did, then she had to have SOME idea of what it was all about, at minimum.

I don't think anyone (even Kate) knows exactly what it's like. Few are ready for regular fame, much less royal fame.
 
Well...you figured it out. I'm of royalty. Anyway....

You can't help who you fall in love with. Having to prepare for this kind of marriage is kind of a drag. The monarchy has been in need of an adjustment for a while. So bring it on.

As for the "blindsiding"....we don't know how it all went down. And maybe it was necessary. This is a family that made his mother miserable and he didn't want to give them time to be in control and make things difficult for them. Think of it like Katie Holmes getting a divorce from Tom Cruise. Doing it slowly and with protocol would have been detrimental to her. Calculating and preparing did her and her daughter a lot of good. And no I am not suggesting the royal family is anywhere near as insane as Tom Cruise.

Give me a break! If life were only that simple. Yes, people fall in love. Some of them never marry. Heck some of them never even tell the other person they are in love with them.

Love or not, before marrying into the Royal Family (her father in law is going to be King of England for goodness sakes) it seems to me some careful reflection should have been done to understand all that is involved. Like it or not, this relationship is more complicated because of who he is.

And don't lose sight of the fact Charles is still giving them a large sum of money every year for their expenses. She must not have a problem with that part of marrying into the family.

And think what you want, I don't hate Meghan. But making excuses for her being some innocent, naïve, delicate little lady is crazy too. I do not believe for ONE SECOND she did not know who Harry was.

ETA: I also don't believe she was scheming to marry him for years. But some of the assumptions is the other direction are just as out there, in my opinion.
 
1) One can dislike a person, but that doesn't mean one should gossip or speak horribly of that person and make mean, derogatory judgmental statements.. Posting horrible things about them online is a form of bullying in my opinion.

2) Now, if you aren't racist, then you should have no reason to feel like I was calling you racist. I was speaking of the comments on the tabloid sites. There are plenty of them. Even before the wedding, I remember people (in media and in my own life) saying this girl was too trashy and low class to marry Harry....normally that was said by some of the most dysfunctional people I know, btw. At the time, the girl had a career and plenty of her own money. Why else would so many find her low class?

3) As for the situation with Meghan's father. We can only speculate, even with his interviews. There's obviously been some issues. He was still offered to walk MM down the aisle even after the staged photo mess, yet he still wouldn't go (no evidence of heart attack or surgery). It sounds like he was offered plenty of guidance from the royal family also.

4) I get that this man can use some help. He shows all the characteristics of medical non-compliance, depression, poor body image and a few other things. I truly believe the RF's staff reached out to him to counsel him on dealing with this new fame and were ready to hold his hand in wedding preparations. MM reached out too, but he just didn't want the help and instead let himself be taken advantage of by his insane older daughter and then became as vindictive as her. Yes, we are both nurses (and I can tell by your posts, you are an incredible nurse). But we also know we can only do so much when someone else doesn't want and refuses the help. I've dealt with that as a nurse and in my own family. You could only let that sort of attitude drag you down and get in your way so much.
The thing is, he did actually have a heart attack just a few days before the wedding. Two, to be exact, as well as an angioplasty, and probably stents, blood thinners, the whole nine yards. He had a suit and shoes ready for the ceremony that Meghan had bought him, but he was advised by his medical team not to fly. That’s when the crap hit the fan. We know all this from their now public communications. (He was court ordered to hand over his medical records, texts and emails pertaining to this period of time.) Meghan then asked Charles to walk her down the aisle, and the rest is history!

Now I’m a reasonable person and think that it probably was unrealistic for Meghan to go and visit her father a few days before her wedding. Surely. But what about afterwards? What about now? From the documents I’ve read he was a good and loving father to her and they were once close. Their closeness was even evident in their last communications right before the wedding (as I outlined a few days ago). The man wishes to see his daughter again, and meet his son in law and grandson. I don’t see that it’s too much to ask, especially for someone who presents herself as a so much of a humanitarian. Visiting strangers in women’s shelters is nice, but what about your own father, whose biggest mistake was being naive? :confused:
 
Just to clarify, as per Riannon Mills, Royal Corespondent on Sky News

The HRH is a title used to denote WORKING members of the Royal Family. As Harry and Meghan will no longer be carrying out Official Royal Duties, they will no longer be able to officially use the the titles HRH. They remain members of the Royal Family, just not working members of the Royal Family. Harry remains a Prince, and they can still use the titles Duke and Duchess.
 
To me, the RF stars come and go. We went years in between a funeral and a wedding not really paying attention to them (on this side of the pond at least). I wouldn't have recognized the guy either.

Lol you are reaching now. There is no possible way she did not know who this man was.

I am on the same side of the pond that I assume you are on, I don’t follow the royals that much. But the two I would recognize would be Harry and William. I would bet dollars to doughnuts Meghan watched Diana’s funeral. Harry still looks very much the same as he did then.
 
The thing is, he did actually have a heart attack just a few days before the wedding. Two, to be exact, as well as an angioplasty, and probably stents, blood thinners, the whole nine yards. He had a suit and shoes ready for the ceremony that Meghan had bought him, but he was advised by his medical team not to fly. That’s when the crap hit the fan. We know all this from their now public communications. (He was court ordered to hand over his medical records, texts and emails pertaining to this period of time.) Meghan then asked Charles to walk her down the aisle, and the rest is history!

Now I’m a reasonable person and think that it probably was unrealistic for Meghan to go and visit her father a few days before her wedding. Surely. But what about afterwards? What about now? From the documents I’ve read he was a good and loving father to her and they were once close. Their closeness was even evident in their last communications right before the wedding (as I outlined a few days ago). The man wishes to see his daughter again, and meet his son in law and grandson. I don’t see that it’s too much to ask, especially for someone who presents herself as a so much of a humanitarian. Visiting strangers in women’s shelters is nice, but what about your own father, whose biggest mistake was being naive? :confused:

She court ordered her dad’s medical records? She thought he was lying?
 
The thing is, he did actually have a heart attack just a few days before the wedding. Two, to be exact, as well as an angioplasty, and probably stents, blood thinners, the whole nine yards. He had a suit and shoes ready for the ceremony that Meghan had bought him, but he was advised by his medical team not to fly. That’s when the crap hit the fan. We know all this from their now public communications. (He was court ordered to hand over his medical records, texts and emails pertaining to this period of time.) Meghan then asked Charles to walk her down the aisle, and the rest is history!

Now I’m a reasonable person and think that it probably was unrealistic for Meghan to go and visit her father a few days before her wedding. Surely. But what about afterwards? What about now? From the documents I’ve read he was a good and loving father to her and they were once close. Their closeness was even evident in their last communications right before the wedding (as I outlined a few days ago). The man wishes to see his daughter again, and meet his son in law and grandson. I don’t see that it’s too much to ask, especially for someone who presents herself as a so much of a humanitarian. Visiting strangers in women’s shelters is nice, but what about your own father, whose biggest mistake was being naive? :confused:

I don't doubt you. But please post a link on that. I only saw a vague bill which specified nothing.

As for getting together now, well he kept talking to the press when he shouldn't have. Why can her mother respect her wishes to keep quiet, but this guy can't?
 
Lol you are reaching now. There is no possible way she did not know who this man was.

I am on the same side of the pond that I assume you are on, I don’t follow the royals that much. But the two I would recognize would be Harry and William. I would bet dollars to doughnuts Meghan watched Diana’s funeral. Harry still looks very much the same as he did then.

Again...that funeral was over 20 years ago. And the only news I recall of Harry between the funeral and his own wedding was that naked hotel romp. I've walked by many famous people (lived in NYC) without realizing who they were until someone else pointed them out. If you want to hold that against her, be my guest.
 
She court ordered her dad’s medical records? She thought he was lying?
I know this was really long, and most people probably glossed it over :laughing: but this went over the whole issue about the lawsuit and the wedding problem with the dad. (From page 27 or 28.)

Getting back to this. I posted it last night but didn't have a lot of time then to talk about its contents, in case people glossed it over, and in light of the discussion yesterday about the relationship between Meghan and her father.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...star-witness-against-High-Court-showdown.html
So Meghan herself filed a lawsuit against the Mail for publishing parts of private electronic communication between her and her Dad, Thomas Markel, in 2018 just before her wedding.

The case is coming up to the High Court in London.

At the time, Meghan apparently allowed five of her friends to discuss a letter's contents with People Magazine, and essentially, as the communication trail has shown and will show, they lied.

Thomas Markel was hurt and wished to defend himself, so he provided communication to the Mail himself to show the truth.

It is all right there for the whole world to see how she and Harry treated him while he was in medical crisis, as well as how he responded to her.

It will be hard to deny the facts here.

"The devastating breakdown in Meghan Markle's relationship with her father was laid bare yesterday in a series of messages between the pair detailed by court papers.

He has handed over previously unseen messages and letters which set out how he made desperate attempts to mend their relationship after heart surgery forced him to miss her wedding.

In one message he accused Prince Harry of treating his heart attack as an 'inconvenience', adding: 'I've done nothing to hurt you, Meghan or anyone else.'

In another, he said that Meghan had effectively 'written me off'. The exchanges between Mr Markle and his daughter were detailed in documents filed to the High Court in London yesterday.

He has handed over his own medical records and his correspondence with Meghan, which reveals how their relationship broke down in the final fortnight before her wedding.

According to the messages detailed in the defence papers yesterday, Thomas Markle initially sent touching messages to his daughter, which spoke of his excitement about her upcoming wedding – before he told of his devastation when a heart attack forced him to abandon plans to walk her down the aisle. In the messages, he repeatedly told Meghan that he loved her.

In documents lodged at the High Court, defence lawyers said Meghan had shown a disregard for her father's wellbeing. They said that even after he explained his cardiac condition and that doctors said he couldn't fly, he was on the receiving end of an admonishment from Harry.

According to the defence papers, Mr Markle texted his daughter to say he had dropped off some flowers at her mother's house for Mother's Day. In a touching message, he told Meghan he was excited about trying on some shoes she had bought for him to wear to her wedding. She had also bought him a new suit.

He ended the text with a poignant message that it was 'past her bedtime' because of the time difference, adding: 'I love you.' He wrote: 'I look forward to trying on my shoes and see how we look thank you for getting it ready for me its [sic] probably past your bedtime so have a good night I love you Dad.'

The news is about to break that Mr Markle had secretly agreed with a photographer to stage a series of paparazzi-style pictures – despite pleas from Prince Harry for the media to leave his future father-in-law alone. At the time, it was reported that CCTV had caught him posing in an internet café for photographs which showed him looking at a news story about his daughter's romance with the prince.

Kensington Palace had previously issued a warning to publishers to respect his privacy, saying he had been 'harassed' by paparazzi. A letter by Prince Harry's communications secretary Jason Knauf said he had been followed and urged editors not to publish pictures of him. But the Mail on Sunday revealed a series of photographs had been taken with his co-operation in March. Mr Markle, Meghan and Harry spoke on the phone before the story broke.

Kensington Palace issued a statement in which it confirmed that Mr Markle would not attend the wedding. It said: 'This is a deeply personal moment for Ms Markle in the days before her wedding. She and Prince Harry ask again for understanding and respect to be extended to Mr Markle in this difficult situation.'

The defence papers say that on that day, Mr Markle wrote to his daughter to apologise for the furore over the posed photographs, and offered to make a public apology to both Meghan and Prince Harry. He said he loved her but would not go to her wedding as he wanted to spare her from any further embarrassment.

Prince Harry sent him a message in response, saying he did not need to apologise, and that he should call them. Later that day, Mr Markle suffered chest pains and shortness of breath and was taken to hospital and diagnosed with suspected congestive heart failure.

Mr Markle had an emergency operation – an angioplasty to unblock two arteries to his heart.

The defence papers say that on that day, he texted Meghan to tell her about the surgery and said he could not attend the wedding because his doctors would not allow him to fly. He apologised for missing the wedding and said he loved her, and wished her the best, saying he had had surgery.

According to the defence papers, he sent a later message, asking who would walk her down the aisle to give her away, and said he would come if she really needed him. He apologised again for not being there. He told Meghan he loved her and wishes her the best.

In response, he received a text message which he believed was from Prince Harry, which he described as hurtful.

According to the legal documents lodged at the High Court yesterday, it was signed 'Love M and H' but did not ask about his emergency heart surgery, or even ask him how he felt. Instead, it accused him of ignoring some 20 phone calls from Meghan.

The court papers said of Thomas Markle: 'He received a text response signed 'Love M and H', but which read as if it was from Prince Harry, (amongst other things) admonishing Mr Markle for talking to the Press and telling him to stop and accusing Mr Markle of causing hurt to his daughter.

'The text did not ask how the surgical procedure had gone or how Mr Markle was or send him good wishes.' Mr Markle was said to be 'deeply hurt' by the tone of the message, and replied curtly.

According to the defence papers, he said: 'I've done nothing to hurt you Meghan or anyone else I know nothing about 20 phone calls. I'm sorry my heart attack is … any inconvenience for you.' The court papers allege he received no reply and that his daughter did not speak to him again in the final days before her wedding.

Kensington Palace issued a statement from Meghan, saying: 'Sadly, my father will not be attending our wedding.

'I have always cared for my father and I hope he can be given the space he needs to focus on his health. I would like to thank everyone who has offered generous messages of support. Please know how much Harry and I look forward to sharing our special day with you on Saturday.'

In a statement the following day, Kensington Palace said Meghan had asked Prince Charles to walk her down the aisle at her wedding. It made no reference to her father or his hospital treatment.

Meghan Markle married Prince Harry and formally became part of the Royal Family.

Her mother Doria was at her side and Prince Charles walked her down the aisle.

The defence papers lodged yesterday, said that Mr Markle had insisted he made multiple attempts to contact his daughter by phone call and by text message, but received no response.

When he tried to call, he said his calls were blocked and that he believed she had changed her number without telling him.

Mr Markle said he had no communication from Meghan at all until her letter in August, three months later. Apart from that single letter, the defence papers said he had not heard from his daughter since he told her he was too ill to attend her wedding. He had never been introduced to her husband Prince Harry, nor met his eight-month-old grandson Archie.

He continued to try to make contact, and texted her in November 2018, according to the defence papers. The message read: 'I want to reach out to you or try to reach out to you one more time.

'You apparently have just written me off and now it's telling me I guess for the rest of my life?' He has received no response, the legal papers said.

Thomas Markle released a letter from his daughter Meghan to the world to show it was not the 'loving' plea her friends had been making out, court documents said yesterday.

He kept her handwritten note private for months, and only revealed it to expose 'false' claims that the duchess had been trying to repair their relationship.

The letter – from August 2018 in the wake of her wedding to Prince Harry – was an 'attack' on Mr Markle and signalled the 'end of the relationship' between father and daughter, the court papers said.

According to defence papers filed at the High Court yesterday on behalf of The Mail on Sunday, the Duchess of Sussex's estranged father only decided to release extracts of the letter to the Press after she had allowed her friends to talk about it first.

The newspaper's documents stated that Meghan 'knowingly' allowed her friends to leak details of the letter to the media. She 'caused or permitted' five close friends to speak anonymously to the US magazine People to attack Thomas Markle, the court papers said.

The result was a bombshell interview published on February 6, 2019, in the celebrity weekly headlined: 'Her best friends break their silence' and 'The truth about Meghan'.

It quoted the Duchess of Sussex's friends saying she had written an impassioned plea to her estranged father to stop 'victimising' her in the media. They said she had been so upset by his repeated public attacks on her and Prince Harry that she had sent the letter begging him to sort out their differences privately.

The People interview said Meghan had written to Mr Markle: 'Dad, I'm so heartbroken, I love you, I have one father. Please stop victimising me through the media so we can repair our relationship'.

But this article gave a 'one-sided' and 'false' account of the situation and of her letter, yesterday's defence papers said.

Far from being 'a loving letter aimed at repairing their relationship… her letter was an attack on Mr Markle. Amongst other things, she accused him of breaking her heart, manufacturing pain, being paranoid, being ridiculed, fabricating stories, of attacking Prince Harry and continually lying'.

Among the false claims, it was wrongly said that Mr Markle had refused to get in the airport car to attend the royal wedding, according to the court papers.

The People interview also said that Mr Markle had 'never called... never texted', and that he had falsely claimed that he could not reach his daughter. This was, according to the Mail on Sunday's defence, untrue.

Following the wedding, Mr Markle had tried to contact Meghan by phone and text, but had received no response until the letter, it was said.

'Except for the receipt of the letter, Mr Markle had not heard from his daughter since he wrote to tell her he was too ill to attend her wedding, nor has he ever been introduced to or met Prince Harry or their son, his grandson,' the defence document said.

Mr Markle was therefore entitled to set the record straight by allowing the British newspaper to publish extracts of the letter four days later, said the defence document, which added that he released it 'in direct response to the publication of the People interview'. It said: 'Thomas Markle had a weighty right to tell his version of what had happened between himself and his daughter including the contents of the letter. She did not suggest that they try to repair their relationship.

'On the contrary, the final words of the letter, 'I ask for nothing other than peace, and I wish the same for you' suggested that their relationship was at an end, and Mr Markle understood those words to signal the end of the relationship.'

The court filing insisted the Duchess of Sussex had never denied that she gave her consent to People magazine's five sources, described by the weekly – which has 40million readers in the US alone – as an 'intensely loyal circle of close friends'. The defence document said that Meghan 'knowingly caused or permitted information' about her relationship with her father and a description of the letter's contents to enter the public domain.

The meaning and effect of the 'one-sided and/or misleading' account in the People 'was to suggest Mr Markle had made false claims about his dealings with his daughter'.

The Mail on Sunday's defence also said: 'The People interview stated that Mr Markle had responded to the letter with a letter of his own in which he asked for a 'photo op' with [Meghan], with the implicit suggestion that he was seeking to make money from a photograph of him with [her]. This was false.

'Mr Markle had in fact written, 'I wish we could get together and take a photo for the whole world to see. If you and Harry don't like me? Fake it for one photo and maybe some of the Press will finally shut up!'. None of Mr Markle's account of events or feelings about those events was mentioned in the People interview.'

The defence lawyers said it was apparent from Meghan's neat handwriting and immaculate presentation of the letter that she anticipated it being read by others or possibly disclosed to the media.

One of Meghan's best friends once intervened to try to fix a 'favourable' press article for the Duchess of Sussex, it has been claimed.

Canadian fashion stylist Jessica Mulroney tried to 'influence' an interview that former Meghan adviser Gina Nelthorpe-Cowne had granted the Mail on Sunday.

The claim is part of the newspaper's case that the duchess was well versed in the art of attempting to manipulate what was written about her.

She has complained about her father allowing parts of a letter she wrote to him to be published in the Mail on Sunday.

But the paper says Thomas Markle only did so after Meghan had colluded in an article with People magazine. Mrs Mulroney's intervention was given as an example of Meghan using friends to influence what was written about her.

The duchess and her style guru are said to have been in touch after Kensington Palace was informed by the Mail on Sunday about its interview with Mrs Nelthorpe-Cowne, a former friend and adviser.

The court papers say Meghan 'caused or permitted a close friend to seek to influence what is published about her in the media'. They said Mrs Mulroney tried to intervene in relation to the interview.

A Mail on Sunday journalist had notified the Palace about the contents of the story. The paper's lawyers suggest Meghan then passed this message on to Mrs Mulroney 'with a request that she intervene to try to ensure that a more favourable article was published'.

Later that day – April 7, 2018 – Mrs Mulroney wrote to Mrs Nelthorpe-Cowne 'putting pressure on her to withdraw or change statements', it was claimed.

Defence lawyers stated they would seek 'disclosure' of all of Meghan's communications relating to this intervention and any other occasions in which she had permitted her friends to provide information to the media to influence what is published about her.

Mrs Mulroney, the daughter-in-law of former Canadian PM Brian Mulroney, met Meghan while working on the TV drama Suits. Known as 'Toronto's answer to Gwyneth Paltrow', she is a social media star and is married to a friend of Canadian PM Justin Trudeau.

That letter is at the heart of a court case in which the Duchess of Sussex has accused the Mail on Sunday of breaching both her privacy and her copyright after it published extracts.

The newspaper, which is the sister paper of the Daily Mail, was given the letter by Thomas Markle after five close friends of the Duchess gave anonymous interviews to a U.S. celebrity magazine attacking him and which he said were false and had left him 'devastated'.

The new details are contained in the defence document, lodged with the court by the Mail on Sunday, which paints a vivid and disturbing picture of the deterioration and breakdown of the relationship between Meghan and her father, a retired Hollywood lighting director.

For the Royal Family, this is another unwelcome move which looks certain to lead to the extraordinary spectacle of Thomas Markle giving evidence in the Queen's court against Her Majesty's granddaughter-in-law.

These are uncharted waters for the royals, who have for generations avoided courtroom dramas. No wonder informed sources say other family members, while sympathetic to Harry and Meghan's predicament, are 'queasy' about the developments.

They were surprised when the Duke and Duchess decided to move the case from the usual royal lawyers to another more aggressive firm. It not only raised eyebrows at the time, but also suggested the couple were set on their path.

Not since the Old Bailey case against Princess Diana's former butler Paul Burrell, which collapsed so dramatically 17 years ago and in which there was a real threat that members of the Royal Family would be forced to give evidence, has a royal been so close to a legal showdown as Meghan is now.

In 44 pages, the Mail on Sunday sets out its case and the background to Thomas Markle's absence from his daughter's wedding. He reveals how he fully intended to travel to Britain for the nuptials, giving the date of his departure for London from his home in Mexico as May 16, 2018.

The tragedy of this family breakdown has haunted the royals ever since. To some, Mr Markle seemed an unpredictable, possibly vulnerable, figure. To others, he was a victim who had been ruthlessly driven out of Meghan's life because she was now a royal duchess.

To compound the difficulties, in February last year People magazine published a story in which it claimed to 'put the record straight' over the Duchess's relationship with her father and criticism of her style as a royal.

It was based on interviews with five friends — at least one of whom was thought to be one of the Duchess's co-stars in Suits, the TV legal drama in which she starred for six years.

The article painted Meghan in a glowing light, while insisting the negative stories about her were lies, and, crucially, referred to the private letter she had sent him the previous August.

The magazine also claimed that Mr Markle's response to the letter had been to ask for a 'photo-op' with his daughter. The court papers say this was false.

In fact, Mr Markle suggested a photo only to take the media heat off the three of them by suggesting a harmonious relationship.

There is one other twist. The Mail on Sunday documents reveal how Meghan 'caused or permitted' one of her close circle, the Canadian Jessica Mulroney, to put pressure on Gina Nelthorpe-Cowne — a former business associate of the Duchess — to change an interview she had given to ensure a more favourable impression was conveyed. It is a sign of the sophistication of Meghan's circle where media management is concerned.

The next step could well be the High Court in London and the unbelievable prospect of the wife of the Queen's grandson battling with her own father over truth and lies, like an unedifying scene from a soap opera."
 
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