Just can't quit thinking about this issue...
My DH is a District Manager with his HUGE company. Over half of the group of employees under him are female (and most have been with the company longer and make more $) and his direct boss is also female. He probably eats lunch with co-workers three out of five days a week - often with one or two females. Many times this is necessity, not social...I mean, they're on the road alot (in town and out) and they have to eat! He even travels with them and stays in the same hotel. This is HIS JOB...male or female isn't exactly a choice - thank goodness IMO!!
I have never even questioned this practice and even after reading recent posts, I still don't. I've been trying to find a problem with it, but I can't!! Once, he even called from his hotel to let me know where he was staying and he said, "We're in room..." He was with a female that trip!! I did actually call both of them IN THEIR SEPARATE ROOMS to tell them what he said in a JOKING WAY...still wasn't worried. DH still has to live that one down at work though, cause everyone heard about it!
Anyway, my DH works very, very hard for us. I trust him completely. I will say that I personally know his direct co-workers and we do family get-togethers every so often with kids and all. Very comfortable situation! Just wondering what others think!
By the way, DH doesn't know my DIS name nor would he even think to care to. He could ask and I'd tell of course, but HE JUST DOESN"T CARE!!
My DH is a District Manager with his HUGE company. Over half of the group of employees under him are female (and most have been with the company longer and make more $) and his direct boss is also female. He probably eats lunch with co-workers three out of five days a week - often with one or two females. Many times this is necessity, not social...I mean, they're on the road alot (in town and out) and they have to eat! He even travels with them and stays in the same hotel. This is HIS JOB...male or female isn't exactly a choice - thank goodness IMO!!
I have never even questioned this practice and even after reading recent posts, I still don't. I've been trying to find a problem with it, but I can't!! Once, he even called from his hotel to let me know where he was staying and he said, "We're in room..." He was with a female that trip!! I did actually call both of them IN THEIR SEPARATE ROOMS to tell them what he said in a JOKING WAY...still wasn't worried. DH still has to live that one down at work though, cause everyone heard about it!
Anyway, my DH works very, very hard for us. I trust him completely. I will say that I personally know his direct co-workers and we do family get-togethers every so often with kids and all. Very comfortable situation! Just wondering what others think!
By the way, DH doesn't know my DIS name nor would he even think to care to. He could ask and I'd tell of course, but HE JUST DOESN"T CARE!!