In Search of My Body - Not the One I Ate, VOL 7! Princesses? Nope, just us Goddesses!

Are you all getting Hungry Girl's daily emails?

If not, here is what she sent out today:



1. Don't go "on a diet." While diet plans can be helpful, if you think of yourself as being "on a diet," everything can become too black and white. If you're "on a diet" and suddenly you have a little setback, you may decide you're "off your diet" and go back to your old ways. Think of your new eating plan as more of a lifestyle change -- one that will have ups and downs, with good days and bad.

2. Don't deprive yourself. A food plan shouldn't be about deprivation. It should be about SATISFACTION. Find foods you LOVE -- things that satisfy you but are better choices than the fat-packed alternatives. This is KEY.

3. Drink lots of water. Water is good for you. It's good for your skin and your metabolism. And it helps fill you up. Plus, not getting enough water can make you cranky and more likely to make bad food choices.

4. Listen to your body. It knows things. If eating cereal for breakfast tends to make you hungrier throughout the day, then don't eat cereal in the morning. Pay close attention to your body cues. This will help tremendously.

5. Live one day (or even one MEAL) at a time. Don't be discouraged and beat yourself up if you fall off the wagon and eat badly -- just be aware and make better decisions at your next meal.

6. Get exercise with activities you enjoy. I used to HATE exercising. I feared it. Now I exercise but only do what I like (which happens to be walking on a treadmill five times a week, while watching reality TV, and weight training twice a week with a friend). Find something you actually enjoy doing, and you'll do it. Don't take on an exercise routine that causes pain or discomfort -- you'll just end up ditching it completely. (And I know this isn't an EATING tip, but it's important!)

7. Let yourself cheat a little. Everyone strays once in a while. It's totally normal. Splurge when you need to, and enjoy it. (Don't feel guilty!) Then get RIGHT back on track to prove to yourself that you can handle a cheat meal now and then.

8. Keep track of what you eat. Write it down. As dorky as it sounds, you WILL 100% without a doubt make better choices if you hold yourself accountable for what you eat by keeping a food journal. Just do it -- even if you only write in it every OTHER day.
 
Thanks for the list, Liz. Awesome words.

LYZ--I know you are reading. Come out and play. Word.
 
Well aren't you just Susie Sunshine this morning! :lmao:

totally fakin' it this morning ;)

I love the idea of posting daily goals.:thumbsup2

For today:
run (check. already done)
drink ALL of my water (and NO wine)
track my food - the good, the bad, the ugly
get all the stupid chores/errands on my list DONE.
 
I forgot to mention that I loved the Hungry Girl message Liz. I may just have to subscribe to the email list!
 

You should! She's got great tips and recipes, and all of it is archived on her site.
 
Ugh. I just posted a big long reply to tons of stuff, then the dumb computer freaked out and I lost it all. I'll post again later.

Goals today

NO WINE; it's starting to become a staple of girls night in and it's gotta stop
NO SODA
2 bottles of water
 
Good Afternoon!

Goals for today:

Water water water water water water water
Track everything - so far so good
No exercise planned - I had an unexpected 40minute walk through the snow to the train station today, and I have a 40minute walk back from the train station (unless some of the snow has melted!) so I will call that my exercise!

Liz - Love the email, think I will subscribe too.

Hope everyone is having a great day, only 1 hour 10 minutes till I finish work for the day! :upsidedow
 
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Today I am feeling GOOD. REALLY GOOD. :)

Hooray Cathie!

KAT! I am SO proud of you! No more deprivation! YES!!! Small fry is perfect. Major turning point for you! :cool1:

Agreed. "All or nothing" doesn't work.


Goals today:
Water
No wine
Healthy snack in evening

Day off from exercise today. Last night's aerobics class was fantastic -- everybody's motivation to improve themselves in the new year is contagious! Makes me happy.

Okay, everybody -- have a great day, love yourself, and keep going!
 
You can't out-train a bad diet.

k- now it's time to steam some broccoli :laughing:
Can I hear an Amen!
Dawn - and everyone else - don't feel bad. Wasted emotion. We all constantly have to pick up again. That's life. Teaches us resilience. :goodvibes
I know and I also know I am the only obstacle in the way of becoming the best me. I think that part is what gets me. I need to figure out the why I keep sabatoging my own efforts.

Dawn--and anyone else is this position--don't EVER feel bad about starting over. OMG, my whole life is a do-over! Seriously, where would anyone (in any field or activity) be if they gave up and didn't keep trying? Thank God we all have the will to keep trying.
That again is so true E - keep trying.
I'm almost afraid to ask, but what made the holidays so asstastic?

There is a ton I can't get into here but I will try and highlight parts.

The huge Christmas blizzard hit us after we dropped off the kids in Des Moines to be with their Dad in Iowa for Christmas. It was supposed to have been my Christmas with the kids but I had moved things around to accomodate a family Christmas (that did not come to fruition) and be the nice parent and so I told Chad he could have the kids this Christmas again.

The roads on 35 N from Des Moines had no tow service and if you were to go in the ditch you were stewed. So we choose to stay Christmas Eve in Iowa at a hotel, vs risking our life on the roads. Got up and headed out Christmas Day hoping in the daylight it would be easier to naviagte the snow. Ate corn dogs for Christmas lunch from a gas station and when we got back home 5 hours later (normally a 3 hour trek) we ordered Chinese because no grocery stores were open (which I totally agree with and understand) and we had no food in the house from being gone for 1 1/2 weeks. I was truly happy that a restraunt was open for us but it is not the Christmas I would have asked for.

My Dad is back from the Phillipines as of Sept. He had been living in a house with 5 other people since he got back (there was only supposed to be 2 others sharing the home) and it turned out to be a really bad situation. One of the guys there hit my Dad while we were in Disney - and the police were called - the house is being closed as a rental and my Dad needed to move out before New Years.

Now I am being strong and doing the right thing by helping my Dad make calls for places to live but not having him move in here. It is not healthy and it can't happen. Of course no place is good enough for him I found in his price range. He complains about places being too far away, north not south, mobile home parks are not where he will live etc...so I washed my hands of it after 10 hours of calling and said that I hoped he found what he was looking for at $400 a month.

My sister Laura, ended up taking him in because she will not allow him to fall and so now he is on her couch in a one bedroom apartment.

His wife from the Phillipines is still not here and no one seems to know when that will happen.

My youngest sister is a jackwad - did not come over for any sort of Christmas with the kids or see Treyner since he has been home because she is busy living the single life when she does not have Skyler.

Then you have the fact my mom- had a family meal. opened gifts at her home on Christmas Day for my 2 sisters and did not bother to invite me.

Reason, because when we talked I did ask: I have Dan and they (my 2 sisters and herself) are all single so she did not think to invite me. Yes she knew the kids were in Iowa with their Dad but she did not know if Dan and I had plans. So that of course meant don't bother to ask.

My sister Laura (the one I am close to - she is a SW) assumed I was invited only to find out on Christmas, when I did not show up, that indeed I never got a call. She told my Mom that she was rude etc...but again - I am not mad at her and it is not hers to fix.

In my opinion - the switch happened in my Mom's head that I am a seperate entity from the moment my Dad moved out when I was in college. At that point it was her and my sisters against the world. They were still at home. I was in college, then married quickly and had Treyner so I am not considered to be part of the immediate family. There is a definite divide in her behavior to me versus my sisters. I am not sure if she is angry my Dad left when I did and those two things are linked in her brain - but she will not go to counseling or talk about it so I am left to always wonder what the heck happened.

It is something my Mom's siblings see as well and they have tried to talk to her about it to no avail. The most irratationg piece is that she is always kind to my face - would never be rude to me in person - she just acts like myself and the kids don't exisit if it is not a birthday or holiday which is the only time we see her.

I just need to be okay with walking away from it and that means people who are supposed to be family. Not feeling like a failure and knowing that other people have choices as well and not feel responsible or bad like it is a reflection of me for their decessions.




For today: I am drinking my water. Next Monday start back to the Y and watch my food intake. I just don't have it in me to make that commitment today. Need to regroup my poop. Get my head wrapped around it.
 
I know and I also know I am the only obstacle in the way of becoming the best me. I think that part is what gets me. I need to figure out the why I keep sabatoging my own efforts.

yep. That's the boat I'm in too. <sigh>

It's 2:00. And I have a.lot. of water left to drink. I have a feeling it's going to be a l-o-n-g night :headache:

oh. and holidays. They definitely bring out the worst in some people. :sad2:
 
Dawn - :hug: Damn woman, that's plenty. I cannot imagine the journey, but you sound very healthy.

Ronda
 
Wow, a fellow WISHer just informed me that he reported me to the mods (for a post on another thread). I hope I don't end up on the Naughty List, but if I do and can't post for a while, you know why.

So silly, these things. I won't post a link, but if you find it on the events boards, you'll see that it is totally harmless.
 
Wow, a fellow WISHer just informed me that he reported me to the mods (for a post on another thread). I hope I don't end up on the Naughty List, but if I do and can't post for a while, you know why.

So silly, these things. I won't post a link, but if you find it on the events boards, you'll see that it is totally harmless.
K - so this person is now the dictionary/vocabulary police and crusader of all things rightous...maybe a better use of his time would be to say - "Look into it because I don't want you to get into any trouble."

On top of the fact that I am sure the moderators have read up on the bi-laws of the marathon and are now in charge of what goes on at the parks, parades, handicap stalls, marathons, restaurant ques, monorail walkways and all things known to man.

I am glad he is judge and jury and tries to walk you to the executioner.

Do people not have a better thing to do with their time? Maybe volunteer in a homeless shelter and see people with legit issues to complain about.

He was probably the type of person that the kids beat the snot out of in school because he was busy pointing out Suzie took too much glue in art class.
 
Whatever. My post *may* have been against Marathon etiquette, but since I did not ask for any money or anything, it is not against DISboard posting rules. So I doubt there is anything they will do about my post. I mean, I can also post that I am a racist/sexist/ageist or any other unethical thing. As long as I do it appropriately and within DIS guidelines, the post stays.

Doesn't matter. It has already been up long enough and I have had several people inquire about it, so I think it will end up ok.
 
Sounds like I am late for the goal setting, but here goes...

- stay on my food plan for the day ( no cookies)
- drink my water
- get more sleep ( strange I know but I have not been getting enough lately and it is affecting me)
- remind myself that spluges are the exception, not the norm.

I am not putting my workouts on the list as those have
been fairly regular. It is the eating that has gotten way out of control.
 
Now I wait for the weather to pass. It's going to get dang cold and the snow on the ground is going to start blowing around. By Friday morning when *I* want to fly it will all be tidy and an easy drive to the aiport.

I am also busy visualizing a smooth flight and easy race.

I've never been able to settle on a tatoo, but use my toes as canvas instead. The Mickey head is kind of disappointing. Next time I'll bring a picture.

halfToes.jpg


Ronda
 
Well I've only been here just over 24 hours and I've already seen the Opera (Carmen) and Phantom of the Opera. :rotfl::lmao::rotfl: Yeah for me .

LATE EDIT: Oh sh!t Liz and I've been back to the MET and smiled at your rooms - is that right? Forgive me I'm tired and thrilled of course to be back there if I even got it right.

So opera, Phantom of the Opera at the MET and the MET in just over 24 hours???? My head hurts . Here's a MET - there's a MET - everywhere there's a MET.

POTO- cause I'm much too lazy to type - I've surprisingly never seen which is bizarre since I've seen so many shows. It played Toronto for years - years ago.

Liz - if you're reading I've only been in the city in the daytime - figured you're at work but if I'm wrong let me know. I'm in/on whatever :laughing:Long Island so I've had to get a certain train back - long story. I'm leaving Friday morning.

Next time I come to NYC - I am not going to ask who is going to see me like I did - I'm simply going to DEMAND a viewing of all you fabulous women. Trains, planes, automobles. :love:Paula and Nancy - you will have no recourse. :goodvibes

Okay, going to catch up.
 
Ronda - cute toes!!!


Lisa! Yes work during the day. So sad we can't meet up. Next time give me more notice, or a weekend day!!! Enjoy and post pics!!!


Dawn - Wow, good year, horrible holiday, huh? I had the opposite - bad year, good holiday. Here's to 2010 -all of it! :thumbsup2



Hmm. What else. I'm kind of sick. Oh, and I'm going to WDW on the 21st! Yep, last minute trip that I can't afford. :lmao:
 
I haven't caught up yet, but:

Liz - I love HG! :love:

E - Yes, they still make Fresca. I like them too, but don't adore them.

I adore Cherry Coke Zero or Diet Wild Cherry Pepsi. At one point, our area test marketed a diet pepsi that tasted like a rum and coke. I miss it.

I slept last night and didn't catch BL. I will catch it on Hulu.

Back to the thread, lol.
 














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