BrcsDisneyPrncs
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- May 17, 2007
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- 459
Hey all - just catching up on a few points i saw on my skim through
Kat - Congrats on all of the job offers, i know you will make the right choice and hope you are happy with the decision you make!
Dawn - I'm glad your lakes are cleaner than ours! Out here our lakes are DISGUSTING! And if you go to the onondaga out by Syracuse, in certain areas you can actually see white spheres near the edge of the shore. That is solidified chemicals from all of the pollution and dumping - birth defects, etc. Yuck!
As far as Carsyn - you are in a really tough place, and i think we can all appreciate that. Being that i'm the ripe old age of 24 (and i've been that old for a whole 2 days now) being 15 wasn't that long ago for me. I was overweight in school, my whole family has always been a bit on the heavy side, and i remember all of the things i would avoid doing due to being embarassed, and i sincerely regret that now. I agree that tying her phone/computer access/friends may not be the way to go, i know i would have rebelled. She has taken the first step and realized she is not happy with the current state of things, i'm sure as a parent that is hard to hear. I would sit down with her and really talk out why she is feeling that way, so her acheivement by working out and eating right isn't just making sure she doesn't lose her phone priveleges, but making sure she doesn't miss out on the great life experiences that are coming up. I dunno maybe i'm not making a lot of sense, i'm tired and having an off day and having trouble putting into words what i'm trying to say. I just know i wish i would have had someone to sit down with me and talk about the future implications of not changing my habits, and the future possibilities if i did. Ok done rambling.
Ok i have to get off of my lazy butt and work out or i won't.
Kat - Congrats on all of the job offers, i know you will make the right choice and hope you are happy with the decision you make!
Dawn - I'm glad your lakes are cleaner than ours! Out here our lakes are DISGUSTING! And if you go to the onondaga out by Syracuse, in certain areas you can actually see white spheres near the edge of the shore. That is solidified chemicals from all of the pollution and dumping - birth defects, etc. Yuck!
As far as Carsyn - you are in a really tough place, and i think we can all appreciate that. Being that i'm the ripe old age of 24 (and i've been that old for a whole 2 days now) being 15 wasn't that long ago for me. I was overweight in school, my whole family has always been a bit on the heavy side, and i remember all of the things i would avoid doing due to being embarassed, and i sincerely regret that now. I agree that tying her phone/computer access/friends may not be the way to go, i know i would have rebelled. She has taken the first step and realized she is not happy with the current state of things, i'm sure as a parent that is hard to hear. I would sit down with her and really talk out why she is feeling that way, so her acheivement by working out and eating right isn't just making sure she doesn't lose her phone priveleges, but making sure she doesn't miss out on the great life experiences that are coming up. I dunno maybe i'm not making a lot of sense, i'm tired and having an off day and having trouble putting into words what i'm trying to say. I just know i wish i would have had someone to sit down with me and talk about the future implications of not changing my habits, and the future possibilities if i did. Ok done rambling.
Ok i have to get off of my lazy butt and work out or i won't.
