lisaviolet
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- Jul 9, 2002
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Lisa - I totally get what you are saying. Totally. And yes, you get a Tiara. That's all I'm qualified to give.Goddesses are Erika's department.
There is no bad food, there is no bad way - there's just what works and what doesn't. Studies show tracking works for weight loss, studies show exercise works to maintain loss. Studies show people with healthier diets have healthier lives. But there are exceptions to the "rules" which aren't rules anyway.
Tracking works for me, because it makes me eat mindfully, and makes me confront my emotional eating. I have never once given up McDonald's but I don't eat it every day. I will probably never give up anything forever, except sex with men besides my husband. Cause that was a non-negotiable.![]()
I try to do what you do, Lisa. Eat what I love, and be mindful. Again, tracking helps me be mindful. And things go in cycles, so we try to keep spinning along!
Exactly Liz. Tracking makes you mindful and successful. If that's what it would do for me I would do it.
I'm an obsessive personality. Where others aren't. I don't need that negative trait of mine going anywhere near my precious food. They should not mix. If I tracked I would start to be obsessive with that too and not "love" food. I need to love food. As all of us do - it's a wonderful thing. ( I do know people who don't like food though - can just take or leave it - glad I'm not one of them - really)
But I want to throw something at the TV screen if the BLer, and other dieters, think for one instance they don't have the choice to eat crap - I call it crap it's not always I mean anything that's not deemed healthy - and lose. Cause I'm here.
And I'm all for healthy.