I am a roller-coaster conundrum. I like them thrilling but I have a limit to how much my head can get tossed and shaken like a martini in the head restraints. That number is usually 3 times per ride. Any more than that and I'll start getting a headache. Some rides might be just twice and I'm done. The Hulk is one such ride. The head restraints are more jarring than the coaster.
I do like themes, from the intellectual properties I like such as Marvel, Remy, Toy Story and Jurassic Park. I like the harry potter rides but I dislike the films/books. The titular character always struck me as underwhelming. Hermione always seemed to have more acumen with magic than potter.
Like you, I do think screen based rides are nice, such as the avatar ride at Animal Kingdom and Soarin' at Epcot but for the most part, I prefer a more 3D/4D experience. The Jason Bourne show at Universal is amazing and it uses a screen in sch a way, it blurs the line between 2D and 3D very effectively.
I like staying on site at Disney for the same reason, it is more immersive since the real world is so far removed. This was Walt Disney's intent and it works. I'm just disappointed we couldn't go to the Star Wars hotel while it was there. I always figured we had time. I couldn't have imagined Disney would shutter something so expensive to bring to fruition, compelling for the fans and at the center of a renowned IP with fans the world over. I couldn't have been more wrong.
Disney Paris is on our bucket list but I don't expect it to be much different from
Disneyland in California, it's constrained by space in much the same way.
We're in NC as well though we sometimes drive down, especially if we're doing a longer trip and visiting multiple parks. Flying from RDU is such a breeze with non stops to Orlando. It really only works for us on Disney-only trips when we can skip the car.
Will you be down for the Food & Wine Festival? We're going in October and staying at GF.