One of the best things about Disboards
DVC is how it can help you figure out if a resort is right or wrong for you BEFORE you go. Saying THV is too remote or BWV is too bustling is like saying Mickey Premium bars taste too good! That's why you get them! We were just at BLT and to us, it was like an airport Hilton filled with vinyl and veneer, but in a really cool location. We didn't expect it to be warm and soothing, as we find AKL and VWL, so we are happy to concede it to those who don't like AKL and VWL for the very reasons we love them! Since we have access to this marvel that is the Disboards, we should take advantage of at least trying to avoid disappointment by eliminating the element of (unpleasant) surprise.
If you have a baby (and all the stuff you have to drag along with a baby), don't pick a place that absolutely has lots of stairs. Nearly everywhere at Disney requires long walks, and a pack and play and strollers and carseats and diaper bags will quickly fill up nearly any room, no matter how big it started! Been there, done that, glad they are teenagers now (well, glad most of the time.)
If you won't be renting a car, you probably should avoid place that's remote, or you'll just get mad when the bus service gobbles up hours of your park days.
If you want to be part of the action, don't pick a place like the THV or OKW which are more remote, scattered, and cloistered by vegetation.
But...if you want to have the experience of having your own "house" at Disney with your own deck and grill for cookouts, you'll love THV.
If you want to get away from the happy chaos of the parks and throngs of people sweating and fighting for parade viewing spots, you will appreciate THV or OKW and the sense of calm. Parts of VWL and AKL have a certain hush to them, as well (just not Whispering Canyon Cafe ;.)
If you love the nightlife and sound and action, BWV and BCV are all over that.
Each resort has its own personality well-documented by the folks on this board. There's nothing you can't find out about in advance about parking, access to refillable drinks, length of walks, likelihood of catching a bus, and even what size coffee filters the machine in your room takes. No reason to be disappointed about your trip because you wanted your resort to be something it just isn't. They all have something to love about them!
Long live Disboards!