I feel your pain, OP. Our group includes 1 bariatric patient plus an 11 year old and 14 year old who normally "share" a kids meal (very light eaters). We haven't done a buffet meal for 3 years which is sad since the 11 year old would still really enjoy a character meal. I always liked the idea of getting autographs at character meals instead of having to wait in lines for them. Instead, we now have to use some of our fast passes for character meet and greets. There are some table service places that the girls really enjoy: Prime Time cafe, Sci Fi theatre, Sonny Eclipse, Chefs of France, French bakery, Rain Forest cafe, Be Our Guest for lunch. These aren't character meals, but the restaurants do provide some type of "experience" and you can order off the menu.