Buzz Rules
To Infinity and Beyond
- Joined
- Feb 7, 2005
If money and your health was no issue, what would be the maximum age you would be willing to have kids?
I was going to say the same thing. I had DS at 24. He's spent many years collecting college degrees & is still single. If he ever has kids, I want to be young enough to enjoy them.30. I was 20 when I had our son, 40 years ago, and at the time I really wasn’t ready but as I got older I appreciated having him so young. I was only 38 when he graduated and it felt good. I like being a young-ish grandma too.
DH and I are 48 & 45 now and our kids are 19 & almost 21 and both in college. We are loving our decision to have them in our 20s! I’m doing all my traveling now and it’s great because I can do it with my adult children. DD and I are planning a trip through Europe next year for her college graduation!30-35 We wanted to do some traveling before kids and then my DW needed to finish her Psychology Doctorate. So we didn't get to start until the late 30's and then we had a miscarriage that put us back. So our 1st DD I was 43 and my DW was 40. We had our 2nd DD 5 years later. As I look back, I am sure glad we did not have kids in our 20's, because I did not have the patience as I did later on.