she is my aunt through marriage. she is getting a divorce from my uncle. they will be divorce in march. she is only 4 years older than me. i have always liked her. the whole family still loves her, and they should shes a great women and the divorce is all my uncles fault as he cheated on her. i am just recently singled now myself. do you think i should wait until the divorce is final before i ask her? do you think i should tell my uncle first? if i ask her and she says no, at least i know i wont have to be wondering what if. i been posting here for a little over 5 years just had to start a new name for this post for obvious reasons. i know someone is going to ask what if he want to date my old girlfriend,it will be ok with me.if i wait the almost three months for the divorce to become final she might meet another man before than, than i will be too late.