I need to vent, but I'm going to come of spoiled...

[cmonroe]

I am seriously borderline skitzo about Disney. We went last year however, we cannot afford to go this year. So our plan was to go late next year in early December to see the Christmas decorations, etc.

Here comes the spoiled and insensitive part....

Our trip has been postponed next year because we need to go to the Azores.
My wife's family is from there and her grandmother is feeling her age. Because of this, we will be flying east instead of south to the best place on earth.

Now before you flame me please understand:

-I understand that we need to make this trip.

-My wife's grandmother would love to see the children, and quite honestly, the island is beautiful.

We will be unable to go to WDW in 07, because flights to the Azores are between $600 - $800 each (x4). So we are destined to revisit the world in 2008. Please disregard the ticker.

Spoiled? I feel like it. Disappointed, yeah. Flame away... I just really needed to vent......

 

[Ready to go in Ok]

Spoiled? I feel like it. Disappointed, yeah. Flame away... I just really needed to vent......[/QUOTE]

I think spoiled and disappointed are 2 separate issues. If you were truly spoiled, you would insist on going to WDW no matter what the circumstances. Feeling disappointed makes you human. Giving up your vacation for your families needs makes you awesome!!

 

[karynnix]

Not spoiled at all to me. Wow, 3 more years to wait is a long time. I feel for you and hope that everything comes out okay. Disney World will always be there waiting for you!! Make the most of whatever you do.

 

[Eeyore2003]

Spoiled? I feel like it. Disappointed, yeah. Flame away... I just really needed to vent......

[/QUOTE]

TOTALLY AGREE!!! You and your children will have wonderful memories of their grandmother and you'll enjoy that trip to Disney a WHOLE lot in 2008. Sorry things turned out like this for you.

 

[YepsenCP]

Yeah, dissapointment is OK, it's human nature... Plus 3 years w/o a WDW fix... ouch.

 

[Eeyore2003]

I think spoiled and disappointed are 2 separate issues. If you were truly spoiled, you would insist on going to WDW no matter what the circumstances. Feeling disappointed makes you human. Giving up your vacation for your families needs makes you awesome!!

SO SO SO SORRY!!! I copied the wrong quote!!! Definitly not spoiled and definitely very caring!!!

 

[danny1649]

Then start planning your trip to WDW,with a good amount of time to plan.You should be able to plan the perfect trip.Plus by that time should be some great new attractions for you to see.

 

[disneyaggie]

Hey, here's an idea . . . bring Grandma to WDW! I bet that puts a spring in her step, much like the one in Tigger's tail!

Seriously, I understand the pull you are feeling. Disney is my "escape", but I am certain Grandma and family will be so glad to see you all. Have a great time!

 

[cmonroe]

Wow. I shouldn't be surprised by the support I receive from you all. I'll tell you after writing my thoughts down, seeing the feedback and support you all have given, I'm not really sure people outside our community understand the caliber of people we have here.
Dis'ers are truly positive, understanding and the most supportive community I've been a part of.

Thanks for listening.

 

[SnackyStacky]

Look at it this way: you've got LOTS more time. In that time, sock away a little MORE money each month, and instead of moderate, stay deluxe! Or add an Illuminations Cruise to your itinerary!

While the waiting is the hard part, the reward may be that much greater!

Enjoy the memory-making in the Azores. And then savor the time until you go to WDW - cause we all know one of the best parts is the antici.....












......pation.

 

[L107ANGEL]

I agree with the other poster. Put extra money aside and have an extra special time when you go. I hope you and your family have a safe and wonderfull trip to the island!

 

[cmonroe]

That's true. Thanks!

 

[BostonRob]

Are you really whining about a trip to the Azores? Yeah, I know you're just looking to vent, but I think you need a dope slap. I just googled Azores and those islands are gorgeous.

Disney will always be there. Your wife's grandmother will not. Be happy you're doing the right thing and sharing a beautiful part of the real world with your family.

 

[cobbler]

I understand the disappointment but you are doing the right thing.

I like the idea of putting a little more money away each month and really go all out

 

[Crazy Kanga]

For what it will cost to fly your family to the Azores, you could fly her to Disney and pay for her whole stay and still come out way ahead! Just a thought. Also, you could possibly get a second job or side business to make some extra money if you just couldn't stand the wait. I realize that this might not be an option either, just throwing out suggestions. Good luck in whatever you decide.

 

[Disney01]

I understand exactly how you feel. But I think I take the selfish brat award. During our recent 11 night stay, we got word on our 2nd night that my FIL had to have emergency open heart surgery and wasn't expected to make it. My husband started making flight arrangements. Yes, I was concerned about his father, but inside, I'm ashamed to admit, I was crying about having to leave early. I even voiced my feelings a little (a mistake, I know) and asked when could we come back to WDW. My husbands response, "I don't KNOW, I can't even think about that now." I was ashamed after that. Even a trip to the islands, to me, does not compare to a WDW trip so I understand how you feel.

 

[cmonroe]

For what it will cost to fly your family to the Azores, you could fly her to Disney and pay for her whole stay and still come out way ahead! Just a thought. Also, you could possibly get a second job or side business to make some extra money if you just couldn't stand the wait. I realize that this might not be an option either, just throwing out suggestions. Good luck in whatever you decide.

Kanga,

I agree with those suggestions! However, I already work a second job! We're sacrificing so my wife can stay home with our little ones. Unfortunately grandma (vovo) is not leaving the Azores.

BostonRob,

I can always count on a fellow New Englander to come out swinging ;-) And you're partially right. I guess you could consider that whining, but I really meant it as venting. The Azores are beautiful. I've been there many times.


I appreciate the feedback and have adopted the frame of mind about saving money for a better trip! Thanks again to everyone!

 

[dennis99ss]

Why not hop the train to paris, or something like ryan or go, if they fly into portugal

 

[meandtheguys2]

It is disapointing to have to postpone a trip, even for a good cause. We cancelled 1 for preemie niece, and one for my mom's cancer treatment. And I was sad to miss a trip. It couldn't be helped and I understood, but I did feel sad.

Sooooo, start planning for the next one! It always does me a world of good, and I am getting prety flexible with the changes that come along! Take care!

Mcihelle

 

[Sleepy]

I also know how it feels to postpone trip after trip after trip. Hubby is in the Navy and was on a ship that was ALWAYS gone. Times that were good for me and my son was not good for hubby (out to sea). Our last trip was 2001 Every year after that I kept saying....maybe next year. Only it never happened and now we are in Italy. Yeah, I know. I am in such a beautiful country with so much to look at.......but it is not Disney. I take weekend long vacations to different cities here, but they are not REAL vacations. It's just too frustrating to drive to a new place, get lost, argue about why we are lost, hunt down our hotel, get lost some more, spend an hour looking for a place to park, argue again.......it's just too stressful. With Disney, you get in the car, drive straight to the hotel and relax for 2 weeks. Oh yeah....and everyone speaks English, so I don't have to think before I speak.

Just remember you are doing this for your wife and kids. If you went to Disney instead of to see grandma, your wife would never view Disney the way you do right now. She would always remind you on future trips that Disney was more important than her grandmother. Also, going a few years in between will make you appreciate Disney more. There will be more to see...new rides, etc. Been 4 years for us. I feel like I am dying from withdrawl. These boards keep me going. As long as I keep reading about Disney, it doesn't make it seem like my next trip is so far away.....planning a trip for Aug 06. Have no idea if we will make it or not, but gonna try.....have the money in the bank ready for us. Am I crazy to want Disney more than a trip to Egypt?