Thanks everyone for your input! I'm going to try to answer all your questions so you can advise me which card to apply for.
I pulled my credit report. I have 11 open accounts, have an 801 credit score, and utilizing 1% of my available credit (I don't know if any of this is important, but just in case).
I have the following open accounts:
Comenity/Express opened 12/17 (maybe I should close this? I just opened it to get a discount on DD's Christmas clothes)
Comenity JJill opened 9/16 (I use this for a 5% discount on my clothes but maybe I should close it)
Comenity/Pottery Barn opened 7/14 (opened for the discount and never used since)
Sync/Lowe's opened 11/12 (opened for discount and never use)
AmEx opened 8/14 (this is my Blue Preferred, with a $95 AF but 6% back on groceries)
Chase opened 6/16 (my Sapphire Preferred, got it for travel points and it's the main card I use)
Barclay's opened 11/17 (this is the Aviator AAdvantage that my husband suggested I apply for and I haven't figured out why yet, haha)
CitiCard CBNA opened 8/16 (I'm an authorized user on this one; I didn't sign up for it myself; I think it's DH's old AAdvantage card before he got the above card)
Chase opened 1/10 (DH's Marriott Rewards card, I'm just an authorized user)
Chase opened 10/15 (I don't know what this is, but it looks like somehow we have two Marriott Rewards accounts? I have two cards that look exactly alike
but have different account numbers and expiration dates (both are current). I asked DH about it and he seemed perplexed and
said that maybe one was a replacement card. This bears further investigation but I don't have time right now.
I guess the 11th open account must be my mortgage.
I also have several closed accounts:
Barclay's closed 1/10 (don't remember what this was)
AmEx closed 4/8
Credit First . closed 6/15 . (I think this was a Firestone card that I got to get a discount on my new tires)
Discover closed 1/17 (This actually is listed as Discover Financial Services and I don't know what it is)
SyncB/TJX . closed 1/17 (TJ Maxx/Home Goods, I think?)
SyncB/TJX . closed 7/13 (same; don't know why there are two)
Home Depot closed 11/17
Chase . closed 11/16 (I think this must be my old SouthWest card that I cancelled after I got the Sapphire Preferred)
Huh. Now that I have it all spelled out in front of me it doesn't look so good. I thought I only had the one Chase card and the one AmEx card in my name, but with DH adding me as an authorized user to his cards and the Chase account I closed in 11/16, it looks like I have 3 open Chase accounts and one that was closed less than 24 months ago.
Well, it is what it is. I can only do better moving forward. Like the old Chinese proverb says, "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, but the second best time is right now"!
I'll go ahead and answer the rest of the questions you lovely people have asked and then hopefully you'll have the information you need to help me decide which card to get (or if I should even get a new card).
While cash back is great, I just can't get as excited about it as I do about travel points. Cash back just goes toward paying the bill and as such just gets absorbed back into our finances; it's more like a coupon on goods and services. Travel points add up to fun! It's not like we can use them to pay the water bill (and if there is a way to do this--which you guys surely would have figured out--I don't want to know about it!).
We are a family of four with two children who are almost 14 and almost 10. Husband travels weekly and flies probably about half the time. This is only between Tampa and Miami so not a huge amount of mileage, although it adds up. We both travel for conferences only a handful of times a year. Next one I know of is a conference I have in May in San Francisco. For most of our shorter trips we drive, but we usually take about one family trip a year that involves flying. Past family trips have been Greece, California, Colorado (twice), Cancun (twice), and Hawaii. DH and I occasionally travel without the kids, sometimes domestically, sometimes internationally. We also took one family cruise and will probably do one more before the kids leave the nest, although it's not really my favorite sort of vacation.
My favorite type of travel is anything foreign, and I especially love Europe. DH and I have been to Central and South America, and we would love to see Japan and China sometime soon, as well as some other Eastern countries. We'd also like to travel to some African countries. But my true love is Europe so if I have to state a purpose for accumulating travel rewards this would be my objective.
DD wants to go to college in Germany. Whether that will happen remains to be seen; she is only in middle school. But she seems fairly sure that this is what she wants and she is learning German. She and I took a trip to Europe together last year for spring break, but we weren't able to make it to Germany, so that is probably next on my list of travel plans. DH and I thought about trying to go as a family for this year's spring break but we waited too long and at this point it's probably too late to get a good price on airfare.
Also, I mentioned before that I am in grad school and will be done in a year to 18 months. Before I get a job, we are thinking about traveling for 9 months to a year. We have ZERO plans for this as yet, but I know DH would love to sail for a few weeks or so and I just want to keep moving and see as much as we can cover.
So we are really open to travel anywhere.
Regarding expenses, that is something I've been meaning to figure out. As a full time student and primary caretaker for the kids and the house, I don't really have a lot of expenses. DH has the bills set up to be paid from our joint checking account, and this is the lion's share of our expenses. I buy groceries, gas, clothes for the kids and me (not much), and various other miscellaneous stuff. I might take the kids out for pizza while DH is gone, or take them to Disney for the occasional weekend, and I pay for those things. But mostly I personally don't spend a lot, which is a good thing because my piddling graduate assistant salary wouldn't go too far. So I wanted to figure out how you guys pay for as many things as possible in a way that earns you points. I guess you can't pay your mortgage with a credit card, but what can I do to get the most back for every dollar we spend? I could take more control of the total household expenses (DH would love this!) if I knew a better way to do it than just having it come out of our checking account every month. This is something I want to work on in the future--have every penny we spend give us something back (or as close to this as possible!).
But to answer SouthFayette's question regarding the spending I have coming up, I need to spend $2000 for our Disney APs by the end of January (in case of a February price increase). I'm also planning several overnight trips to Disney and one slightly longer one by the end of May, so I could pick up at least another $1000 in Disney gift cards to use for expenses. This could all be purchased immediately, so let's say $3000 this month. I could do $5000 in three months if there is an especially good card that requires that, I'd just have to put some thought into it. DH charges all his flights to his Barclay's AAdvantage card, and all his hotel expenses to his Marriott rewards card, so that he gets the respective rewards from them, and then his company reimburses him. In order to apply for cards in the future and meet the minimum initial expense, I thought he could just put some of these expenses on the new cards because these add up into the 1000s in a hurry. He would lose out on the Marriott points and the frequent flyer miles but if it works out to be worth it he'll be ok with that. But again, that is in the future (like next month, haha).
Obviously, I have a LOT to learn! Right now I'm just about to take some really important comprehensive exams in school and am really busy and really stressed. It sounds so ungrateful to ask for help from you all and then say I don't have time to follow up on your advice, so I hate saying that I can't look into all of this right now! As soon as January is over and my exams are done (and I get through my two kids' birthday parties both in the same weekend!) I will be devoting the time to thoroughly reading all the resource you guys have suggested and making my best effort at learning the language you speak on this board! But for right now I just want to figure out the best way to pay for our APs since I have to buy them now. I'd hate to buy them with one of my existing cards and then sit down and figure out this "churning" thing in February and realize I should have used that $2000 toward a minimum spend on a new card.
Sorry this is SO long but I wanted to be thorough; thanks to anyone who is still reading at this point!
One more thing. Regarding referrals, is it ok to share that kind of information through this board, or is that against the rules? Meaning, if I were to apply for new cards could I use one of you as a referral so you would get the reward?
Thanks again!