CyndiLouWho
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It depends on how much it costs. I’d be pretty ticked if DH spent a bunch of $ without asking. But I manage the finances, so he’d have no ide if we could afford it. I once had a coworker whose husband told her he was buying a sports car or having an in ground pool installed, her choice which. My choice might be divorce but she chose pool.Always better to ask forgiveness than ask permission...that's in some marriage handbook somewhere, right?