Well my dad loves keeping this a roller coaster! Weds I was so mad at him for giving up, I stormed out of his room. Last night the man was carrying on nearly full conversations. He also was able to hold his water cup and bring it to his mouth to drink! When he refused ALL WEEK to do ANY PT now he's determined to get moving and get in a chair, etc. He kept grabbing onto my forearm and trying to pull up his upper body. He wasn't moving much, but he was able to lift himself a little. And I told him, trying is going to help him get stronger!!!
Today he gets kicked out of the hospital to the SNF. I wasn't ready for this, but there was a SUPER NICE (well as far as SNF) center very close to my house, and on my way home from school that had 1 bed open. He managed to get it. I think it's the best place for him to go to motivate him. I'm not sure how much of the time will be "free" and how much of his stay is covered (medicare rules are confusing). But I'm hoping he gets enough time there and really starts to work. Thursday he was telling me he was going to die. So to see him Friday determined to get better again, was amazing! Maybe he is starting to believe in himself.
He was asking for an iced tea last night. So I'm going to bring him one as a bribe to behave today, LOL.
We're you able to protect any of their assets? My fear is that he's going to need medicaid and it's going to basically wipe out everything he's managed to save

Right now I'm paying his bills, and we're starting to do things that medicaid allows (like fix up his house). But it would be nice to save some of his savings! I think I can protect his house (trailer) by saying he has an intent to return. But I'm not sure.
It came to a head yesterday and I went off on my mom. She of course defended my sister. She said I needed to tell her what she needed to do. Ummmm, I texted a list of things! She easily could have volunteered. At this point my messages with her are limited while I work through my issues w/ her. And my mom has taken over relaying everything.