WVMomof3
DIS Veteran
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- Feb 21, 2005
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I can understand your frustration. The idea of progressives was very appealing to me a few years back and I got several pair - I think we changed them out about 3 times and they just didn't work for me. This was somewhere in my forties that my sight changed requiring a bifocal and I was working on my computer at work for a good part of each day. I eventually went to bifocals which took less time to get accustomed to. I was extremely near sighted from birth and had worn glasses all my life. Also had an astigmatism in one eye.
Fast forward to my 60ties and my eyes deteriorated to not seeing well while driving or at night - yup, cataracts! Had the surgery and it was successful and I don't need glasses after more than 60 years of wearing them - except for reading my phone and for my laptop - up close things. I can actually squint and see if I have to, but can't see tiny things.
Sight is certainly a progression. I've had 3 fails - progressive lenses, the early contacts that supposedly could be left in for a month at a time - yeah, no. I wore regular soft contacts - for almost 10 years until I had an eye injury in my doctor's office. And the glasses that darken when you go into the sun - sound good but caused problems long term. The progressives actually made me dizzy and queasy.
Now, since cataract surgery I buy readers at Costco on sale - 3 pairs for 12.99....I like it this way, and hopefully my new lenses in my eyes will last as long as I need them.
I have terrible night vision. Actually, terrible always. Lol. I had a detached retina several years ago and from that surgery they told me I would have higher chance of developing cataracts. At first I was like oh good, then I can have the surgery and get them fixed. Fortunately (or unfortunately???) it was only one eye. So now have a cataract in one eye only. They told me my choices were to fix both, paying for the “good” eye out of pocket or fix the cataract eye only but they would only correct it enough to match the bad eye so I am not lopsided in my vision. My vision is bad in both eyes (-4.5 and -6 in my contacts) so I really don’t want to do that. I just have been putting off any decision and living with it. And I do worry about getting them fixed in my 40s and wonder if they will last. I guess I should really go in for a consultation as it was just my regular eye dr telling me this. But is it bad to wish for a cataract so I can get both done? Lol