My DH deals with our finances now because he insists he wants to bank online and handle the bills online, too. I just can't go there at this point.
I did not like the idea at first, but after switching to online bill pay, that's all I need, combined with my banking account.
I'm with Navy Federal and I love their online bill pay. All my cards are listed in there, in addition to electric, gas, water, insurance and whatever else I pay on a recurring basis. I don't do automatic payments, but I check it (minimally) weekly and pay when the balance gets posted if it's a large one or I wait a while if I have a lot of little charges.
And, with Chase and Amex being the bulk of my credit cards, it's pretty easy to open up Amex or Chase and check quickly for any balances. I know I've always got something on my Amex and Chase cards, Citi Costco and BOA Amtrak, and that the rest are sock drawered except for the annual fees, such as the Radisson card with US Bank.
All my deposits show at the end of the month right now, so it's easy to know if my budgeted allowance to myself is running low. If I need to transfer in some money I can do it from one of my savings accounts, but that is extremely rare. It's only happened when I took advantage of a lot of discounted visa gift cards, and then the money went back as I used the gift cards up.
So, I don't use formal budgeting, but I work with a budget - my pension deposits. And this works for me. I haven't yet tapped into Social Security, and I think I will soon and just set up another account for it. Later I'll decide what I want to spend it on. Same with my savings in my retirement accounts.