I apparently am relationship challenged

[MainStMandy]

Ok here we go...again...lol

I met a guy on Sat who said he would call Sunday (sure ) Well he called me on my way home SAT night to say he had fun...but never called Sunday. Now he's texting me and asking what I did yesterday...

I don't get it

ETA: When I asked him what he did yesterday, he said he "chilled"...Boys confuse me

 

[ButchJohnson]

I think one of the keys to starting out is to be flexible and not put too much hope or pressure in it. I used to run a lot of girls off for being too serious or jealous (decades ago). When I relaxed and didn't take things too seriously, they seemed to work out better. the more you relax and have fun and laugh etc., the better your chances initially.

 

[Miss Jasmine]

Relax and don't think too much. Seriously.

 

[marymrg]

if he was drinking when he said he would call?? Maybe he forgot.

 

[MainStMandy]

if he was drinking when he said he would call?? Maybe he forgot.

Oh aren't you funny

He did call that night...and now he's texting me.

I am trying to relax but it's hard not to take it as rejection!

 

[southernbohemian]

Why are you feeling rejected if he is in contact with you? Boys get nervous about relationships just like girls - maybe he's more comfortable texting you at this point. Relax!

 

[hucifer]

Boys confuse me

That will never change, even when they become men.

 

[marymrg]

Oh aren't you funny

He did call that night...and now he's texting me.

I am trying to relax but it's hard not to take it as rejection!

No, I meant maybe he forgot that he said he would call specifically on Sunday. He is obviously interested if he called you that evening and now is texting you.

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

I wouldn't worry about it since he's still contacting you. He probably just forgot.

 

[DisneyMommyMichelle]

i think it's actually all good! he's still in contact!

 

[FSUGrad97]

Oh aren't you funny

He did call that night...and now he's texting me.

I am trying to relax but it's hard not to take it as rejection!

Please don't take this wrong, but since you just met the guy on Saturday, you might want to bring the desperaton level down a notch. He isn't rejecting you since he's texting you. Keep in mind YOU JUST MET HIM.

I know you might be a little anxious based on the last experience, but relax a bit. Not all guys are like your ex.

 

[Laugh O. Grams]

The guy's obviously a liar and a snake...dump him immediately!!!

 

[luvmydogs]

Please don't take this wrong, but since you just met the guy on Saturday, you might want to bring the desperaton level down a notch. He isn't rejecting you since he's texting you. Keep in mind YOU JUST MET HIM.

I know you might be a little anxious based on the last experience, but relax a bit. Not all guys are like your ex.

He's obviously interested in you, but he may just run and hide if you appear over-eager. I'm not advocating playing games with him--or him with you--but you really need to relax and enjoy the moment. Don't put unecessary pressure on him or yourself--just have fun with this!

 

[arielsleepingbeauty]

Maybe he did want to call you on Sunday, but didn't want to seem so overly eager since he did call you on your way home. Usually guys don't do that. I think he scored some points there. So he didn't call on Sunday, at least he is making contact with you by texting. Maybe he can't talk wherever he is, but at least wants contact with you. I think that's awesome.

Don't play games, but don't put too much stress on the calling thing. If he's a keeper then you don't want to suffocate him.

 

[MUFFYCAT]

As everyone he's texting so everything is okay.
He said he chilled yesterday, maybe he just didn't feel like talking on the phone.

Try not to rush it.

 

[MainStMandy]

K guys...I obviously overreacted. Thank you.

Who would've thought the dis could snap me back to reality, haha.

 

[Disney Doll]

Relax doll. All is well.

After a bad experience it's normal to think that they are all going to be that way.

 

[MOMTOMOOTOO]

"I apparently am relationship challenged "


Me too, and I have been married for 13 years

 

[LindsayDunn228]

Please don't take this wrong, but since you just met the guy on Saturday, you might want to bring the desperaton level down a notch. He isn't rejecting you since he's texting you. Keep in mind YOU JUST MET HIM.

I know you might be a little anxious based on the last experience, but relax a bit. Not all guys are like your ex.

What you said. This guy would run like the wind if he knew you were thinking like this.

 

[Mackey Mouse]

I hear this type of thing from my daughters all the time..

I would just step back and enjoy the ride......sounds like it should be interesting. Did not call, but he texted so does that count for a call???

I would not appear to be even remotely interested......see then they consider it a challenge....the games we play..