Also, something I started doing about 5 years ago is, starting on Dec. 13th I give DH a small gift each day for the 12 days of Christmas. It can be as small as a couple of packs of gum, a woodworking mag or a pkg of his favorite Pep Farm cookies or as big as a bottle of wine or Starbucks gift card. I wrap each one and leave it for him to find (in the front seat of his car, in his underwear drawer, etc. He absolutely loves it and it makes him feel so special. It's a kick for me too, to come up with different things each year.