Hi my name is Jessica. I am new to this group. I have been to Disney a few times alone(with my mom and brother). This is my first trip with my family and I haven't been in like 10 years. I have a husband 33 who is a manly man. Blah. Two daughters ages 4 and 6 Total princesses. And a boy who is 2. Just like his dad I love disney and I am so excited to go I can barely contain myself. We are going on December 14 and staying 6 nights. We are staying at BLT. Any advice suggestions are very welcome. I am a little over whelmed and nervous.
As others have said, there is a lot of information on these forum threads, so there will be a lot to process. Much of it is good advice, too. However, keep a few things in mind when you do your planning.
1a. Don't try to do too much. Allow time for relaxation, for quiet time with your family. Allow time for naps.
1b. Be spontaneous. This alludes to 1a because if you plan to be doing something in a park or at your resort every waking moment, then you could miss special moments that just happen when you least expect them. Part of the Disney magic are the memories you create, and if you attempt to stuff too many of them in one trip, you run the risk of overload.
2. Don't compare your plan to others' plans. What works for them may not for you. Only you know your family.
3. Take advice on these boards with the proverbial grain of salt (including my own comments

). Some will hate certain choices that you plan to make; others will love them. Both are correct. . .for their experiences and needs.
4a. Don't worry if some of your dining reservations--assuming you make them-- get some some poor reviews. Every restaurant gets negative reviews somewhere along the line, but in the end, if you think the place sounds right for your family, try it. It's not the end of the World (pun intended) if a meal or two isn't perfect--neither is life.
4b. Speaking of dining reservations, while it is generally agreed among most DISers (that's what we call ourselves occasionally) that ADRs--or advanced dining reservations--are necessary for at least some restaurants, don't feel as though you will starve if you don't make them. In most restaurants, even if you don't have a reservation, walk-ups are welcome. Granted, during busy times of the day your wait might be a long one considering you have three young children. However, if you hit the eateries at off times, it will be easier. Also, though relatively expensive, buffet restaurants generally can work you in faster. Finally, I see that you're staying at BLT, so you will have some type of kitchen where you can have milk, pastries, cereal, and other breakfast foods that would keep you from having to make a breakfast dining reservation every day, and it keeps eating costs down.
5. Relax. Ask questions. And enjoy your planning!
Oh, yes, and welcome!
