My first question is why would people want to destroy you? And you seem to think people are against you from your signature. Hey even true friends hurt each other, but it is how you deal with it. Even people I thought were my friends have hurt me. Not that I did not do something to create a mess.
When things go wrong in my life I take a step back to look at the whole picture. And try to not get myself into a situation like that again. May it be an action I did or did not follow through on. a word I should not have said. And attitude I should not have had. That is life learning from the pain we have and trying to improve as much as we can. And making the world a better place for people less fortunate than ourselves.