Anyway, I have even got into it with the assistant principal and called the special ed office about it. They retaliated by calling the public health nurse on my daughter. The school's stance was that kids can't come to school till they are toilet trained (and able to make it to the bathroom, hold it a little, etc). This made me mad..and I even told them, it seems to me that you are discriminating against her because she can walk. If she was in a wheelchair, this would be a non-issue. But they wouldn't accept our 4 doctor's notes as anything meaningful. I have even printed off several research studies online, that said incontinence is a complication of her type of dwarfism..but apparently the school knows more than me, who lives with her everyday, or the doctors.