Originally posted by Brian Noble
My kids are both adrenaline junkies who go to Big Steel parks to ride whatever they can. Their parents are adrenaline junkies too. Even so, our family has three ironclad rules whenever we visit amusement/theme parks.
1) Take a break in the afternoon and get out of the park. If it's a day trip, we head home by 4 or 5. If it's an overnight trip, we're out of the parks for at least 2 hours midafternoon. We "miss out", but everyone is much happier.
2) No one rides anything they genuinely don't want to ride. If you're freaked out, even if you've made it to the loading platform after a two hour wait, you don't have to get on, and at least one parent will skip with you so you don't have to wait alone.
3) No one rides anything that they don't qualify for without assistance. No "special shoes", no big hairstyles, nothing.
I don't expect (or even suggest) that other families follow these rules, but they work for us. We insist on Rule 3 for the same reason we never considered passing off our just-turned-three-year-old as a two year old the weekend of his birthday when we visited a park. It's important *to me* that my kids follow the rules in a park, and that means I have to do so, too. It's especially important to me that my kids don't lie, and that means I can't lie about my child's age in front of him to save $40.
If someone misses out on a ride because they're too short, we'll be back some other time, and we can ride it again.
A corollary to Rule 3 is that I almost never go on a ride without at least one kid (DS3 and DD6). That means I often don't get to ride the big ones. As far as I'm concerned, that's great. The day will come all too soon when my kids are too cool to ride with Dad, and until then I'd rather ride Small World with them than RnR without.