pickles
<font color=red>Just call me Capt. Barbossa-someon
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Would you approach a morbidly obese person and ask how much they weigh? Or a deformed person and ask how they got that way?
You might *think* you wouldn't mind if people asked you how tall you are, day in, day out, but if it happened to you, I promise you would.
I think it's sad that people like to POINT OUT differences rather than accept them.
(And you have to understand that tall people-- especially girls-- get made fun of relentlessly as kids. I don't think twins do. It makes us extra sensitive. A little compassion goes a long way sometimes.)
I agree , I am sorry your experiences were negative. I am tall for a girl and extra skinny as a kid and I heard a lot about that. I could ,however, tell the difference between someone who was making fun of me and someone who was just curious. I guess in this case intent is what makes the difference. The OP wasnt making fun of the guy, in fact she had a conversation with him and thought he was cool. She didnt post his picture saying hey look at the freaky tall uy I met, she simply told about her exp and how nice he was and she had asked questions that may have had answers that would be useful for the person who started the thread

