From what I've taken from this, is the piece of advice I've heard time and time again... Buy where to you love to stay.
That being said, I'm very much looking forward to more relaxing vacations. Maybe having non park days to just relax, enjoy the resorts and watch the fireworks.
Hopefully things with work go smoothly, and with minimal expenses, and conscious money managing including living within my means, I'll be able to buy in soon. I am very much interested in renting at BLT and maybe BWV or BCV and see what it's like to be on the monorail and what its like to be within walking distance of Epcot and DHS.
If the DVC Poly is indeed happening, I would honestly consider buying in there. I love the Polynesian, the beach, the feel of the resort, and the convenience of the monorail. Then again if we find a resort we really like before the poly, the resale price may be a lot more attractive than being at the poly!

We shall see!
All in all, I cannot wait to be able to have the points to be able to go EY or EOY and have relaxing trips to de stress and enjoy things even more than before!
I really appreciate everyone's advice and words of wisdom!