How many BEO's did you get

[lpizzuro123]

before you got your final one that you paid your wedding on. I received my first one back in April after our first phone meeting. We had our planning session the end of May and received another one the end of June based on this. We made some additional changes and received our third one in mid August. We are scheduled to pay for our wedding October 11 for our November 10th wedding and I am hopping for one more.

I spoke with my planners assistant on Friday and said I would like to have one more phone meeting with our planner to iron out any final questions.

Does this sound like a lot, too little or about right? I don't want to be asking too much but I also want to make sure we get everthing settled.

Thanks so much,
Linda

 

[roseviolet]

If it helps Linda we are on our 4th one and I know we still have quite a few changes to make. It looks like we are going to have a lot more people than we thought so we are making some budget adjustments. I'm figuring whateverwe next get is what we will have to pay on because I doubt there will be time for another.
~Sara

 

[lpizzuro123]

Thanks so much - this definately makes me feel better. How many people are you ending up with at ADH. We started planning on inviting 60 people - well that number went up to 100 but in the end as of right now we have 53 people coming. We are waiting for a response from 3 more people but I am sure they will be a no. We had an RSVP date of August 18 - which I know is early but we figured if they don't know by then they never will. Not too many surprises in the responses - one or two we thought would say no said yes and a few we thought would come are not able to.

We should start comparing notes as our weddings are so close.

Linda

 

[roseviolet]

I would love to compare notes as I'm starting to get very nervous this close! I'm glad to know you set an early RSVP date too. People thought we were nuts for setting ours at September 1st. We originally wanted 80 people planned for 100 as a high end. And now it looks like we will have around 120. Yipes!! But we still have about 30 outstanding RSVPs which are just killing me. That's my biggest stress right now. Other than that I'm starting to work on our ceremony and programs and making endless lists of all the other things I still have left to do.

 

[lurkyloo]

We had seven or eight BEOs... You are doing fine!

 

[Lisacope]

I think we had five or six....before we were supposed to make our final payment I went over the BEO with a fine tooth comb with my planner and we came up with the final number - and then I wired the money.

 

[Ember]

I had six. I kept taking things out to bring it down.

 

[BaBeeCee14]

I had about 7 or 8 beos too. My full and final payment is due at the end of this week and there are still revisions to be made

 

[Tabetha]

I'm at about 5 or 6... not really sure! We're all paid up and still tinkering!

 

[lpizzuro123]

Your answers have made me feel better. Last weekend there was an all day Bridezilla special that I watched and I do not want to be known as one of those. So far I think I have been calm - expecially next to some of those girls.

Linda

 

[pixie08]

We had 3 or 4!

 

[pixie08]

We had 3 or 4!

 

[DisneyBrideToni]

I am on my 5th. It keeps getting changed because I keep adding more stuff. First I added the HS photos and then I added more floral. I still have 4 more months and I can foresee so many more BEO's.