My dd17 had her first day of school yesterday. She came home concerned that she may have too many difficult classes this year (she's a junior). So far, she has been a straight A student.
She took AP Euro last year & did well, but it was a lot of work. They read 17 books (things like The Prince by Macchiavelli) & had massive amounts of homework. She found out at some point last semester that she was ranked #1 in her class.
This year, she is enrolled in AP Chemistry, AP US History, PreAP English & PreAP Alg II. Her electives are fun - drama, show choir & advanced women's chorus, but they require a lot of time (performances, contests, school musical, school talent show, etc.) So - 7 hours, the norm is 6.
She broke into tears last night because she is feeling a bit stressed. I feel terrible - I fear that she thinks I expect all of this. I truly don't. She was worried about dropping down to the regular level history class because of how it would effect her class rank. She's worried about the chemistry - most of the class was in PreAP Chem last year & she was just in regular chem.
Do you have any experience with the AP process? Is it really worthwhile? The time & commitment is pretty intense. What would you advise her to do? I'm afraid I haven't done a very good job of letting her know how proud we are of her. How do I let her know that without her feeling pressured to keep at that same level unless SHE wants it?
I want her to have time for a social life & to have fun in high school. How do you balance all of that? Seems like so much more is expected of kids today than when I went to school! Her AP Euro class last year was tougher than any course I took in college.
She took AP Euro last year & did well, but it was a lot of work. They read 17 books (things like The Prince by Macchiavelli) & had massive amounts of homework. She found out at some point last semester that she was ranked #1 in her class.
This year, she is enrolled in AP Chemistry, AP US History, PreAP English & PreAP Alg II. Her electives are fun - drama, show choir & advanced women's chorus, but they require a lot of time (performances, contests, school musical, school talent show, etc.) So - 7 hours, the norm is 6.
She broke into tears last night because she is feeling a bit stressed. I feel terrible - I fear that she thinks I expect all of this. I truly don't. She was worried about dropping down to the regular level history class because of how it would effect her class rank. She's worried about the chemistry - most of the class was in PreAP Chem last year & she was just in regular chem.
Do you have any experience with the AP process? Is it really worthwhile? The time & commitment is pretty intense. What would you advise her to do? I'm afraid I haven't done a very good job of letting her know how proud we are of her. How do I let her know that without her feeling pressured to keep at that same level unless SHE wants it?
I want her to have time for a social life & to have fun in high school. How do you balance all of that? Seems like so much more is expected of kids today than when I went to school! Her AP Euro class last year was tougher than any course I took in college.
