How Do You survive A Broken Heart

[BadPinkTink]

How do you survive a broken heart
When your world crashes without warning
When you thought you finally found the one
Someone who completed you, was the other half of you
Waking every morning with a smile
Then one day, without warning you find its all lie
That you were not his one and only
That there was someone else the whole time
That she was there before he met you
You were not looking, he made the first advances
He made the first moves
But all the time he was sweettalking you
He was sleeping with her
Now the happy memories are tainted
Everything being questioned
How do you trust again
How do ever know for sure

 

[theluckyrabbit]

I am so very sorry you are going through this.

 

[LuvOrlando]

I'm so sorry.

Maybe it's empty to you now but I tell my kids all the time that there is someone meant for them out there and until they find that right person there is no way for things to go with anyone else but wrong. At least this is how I see it. Some people find their person young and some when they are older.

I like this, it makes sense for friends too:

 

[princesscinderella]

I’m so sorry to read about your broken heart. Unfortunately we will come across a lot of wolves in sheep clothing in our lives.

 

[Jennasis]

I'm so so sorry you're going through this.

The pain may feel like forever, but it won't be. But for now, you feel however you need to feel. Be Sad. Be Angry. Be whatever you are for however long you need to be. Healing will come, in time...I promise. But for now, you take care of yourself first and you feel how you need to feel.

 

[CdnCarrie]

When my first husband left me I thought I would never heal.
It does get better. I know it’s so hard.

 

[Dan Murphy]

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[Buzz Rules]

How do you survive a broken heart
When your world crashes without warning
When you thought you finally found the one
Someone who completed you, was the other half of you
Waking every morning with a smile
Then one day, without warning you find its all lie
That you were not his one and only
That there was someone else the whole time
That she was there before he met you
You were not looking, he made the first advances
He made the first moves
But all the time he was sweettalking you
He was sleeping with her
Now the happy memories are tainted
Everything being questioned
How do you trust again
How do ever know for sure

The Dis is here for you. Time will heal you. Good music also helps with the healing process. Don’t give up on finding true love. For every rotten egg, there is a basket of good apples. My grandma used to tell me that.

 

[MamaMermaid]

Sending you love.

 

[TLSnell1981]

There are five stages of grief. "-denial, anger, bargaining, depression, bargaining and acceptance They are often talked about as if they happen in order. This isn't always the case". We can experience grief with any loss. Allow to yourself to go through this process. Hopefully you can find peace and strength...grow from this awful experience. Thinking of you during the difficult time in your life.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

How do you survive a broken heart
When your world crashes without warning
When you thought you finally found the one
Someone who completed you, was the other half of you
Waking every morning with a smile
Then one day, without warning you find its all lie
That you were not his one and only
That there was someone else the whole time
That she was there before he met you
You were not looking, he made the first advances
He made the first moves
But all the time he was sweettalking you
He was sleeping with her
Now the happy memories are tainted
Everything being questioned
How do you trust again
How do ever know for sure

I like the way you wrote that up. I’m hoping it was therapeutic. Sorry it happened.
(He’s not worth a lot of your tears. Better people are out there!)

 

[DVCjj]

I am so very sorry. Your post could have been written by my daughter….word for word. 4 years later and she is still struggling. Better but struggling. It will take time.

Please know that we are keeping you in our prayers for strength to get through this very difficult experience. As a parent, it was the worst time of our lives.

 

[mikkle]

That was beautifully written. I'm very sorry this happened to you. Right now it must feel like the grief is insurmountable.

The way you survive is by taking care of yourself, and leaning on your true friends and family.

It might take some time to fully realize that this man did not deserve you. But there is someone out there who does. Stay strong

 

[Kanga and Roo]

I struggled with a broken heart for far too long, I wasted so much time pining for something I could no longer have. Go out an live and who knows, you will find true love when you least expect it. Listen to someone who knows, it's never too late.

 

[WDWEPCOT]

I’m so very sorry this happened to you
I don’t have magical words to make your pain and suffering go away I wish I did
Some of us have been through this / it’s physical pain you feel it and it hurts / it helps to talk to get it out / we are here for you
Why did he do that ? IDK - why is the sky blue ? Stop asking why : not going to change it : deal with what you are going to do / you are a nice person who didn’t deserve this / focus on you !
Stop crying / I know it hurts - but focus on your amazing great qualities - go pet some puppies or kittens to feel that special And then focus on YOU not on him !! Because you have a lot of great things to give !!
It’s a process and it’s hard - you can get through this - it’s gonna hurt but we are gonna change our outlook so it’s gonna not hurt so much - because he didn’t value you and next time the person will know your value !! It’s a lot because you are awesome !!!
Hugs and Blessings to you ! I’m so sorry you are going through this but I have faith you are going to start doing better and feel better because you know you deserve so much better and you know it’s coming

 

[PollyannaMom]

 

[Kitty 34]

Time will heal your broken heart but sending you many hugs until you reach that time.

 

[Snowflakey]

As hard it it may be - turn your sorrow/pain into advocating for yourself.

YOU are not the problem
YOU are an amazing person who is willing and able to love
YOU need to trust in yourself that better is out there, and this life you "thought" was amazing you will soon realize it wasn't

If this person is trying to reach out to you do not be tempted. Care enough about yourself not to fall into his trap again.

And most of all know that YOU are going to get through this. Wake up each day and look at yourself in the mirror and be thankful for the things you do have. Positive thoughts will bring positive outcomes.

 

[Forevermarypoppins]

One breath
One step
One day at a time

Happiness will come again!
Post that on your mirror and repeat it often. YOU deserve it!

 

[LoveSpringsteen]

I’m so sorry for what you are going through now. I am thinking of you and sending a big, virtual hug your way.