No, you have said you value her friendship. I was referring to those that would drop someone like a hot potato. I think we all need to be aware that everyone is different and everyone has good qualities. I've just seen people say how "non-judgmental" they are and then proceed to criticize someone who isn't like them. Honestly, I know I come across as a know-it-all, but it really is how my brain is. I try to not be that way, but just like everyone, I am who I am. I'm not unethical, immoral, a criminal, etc so a personality trait is what others judge me by. My brain doesn't "get" how people can be that oblivious or un-informed about a lot of topics. I like to say I have a lot of useless trivia in my head. I am who I am. I just have a different perspective. It doesn't make others better than me or me better than them. I am a very logical, analytical person which is unusual for a woman, but I am. Just for those that cut people out of their lives because they don't live up to their expectations, please think about it first. Only having people around you that are just like you is an awful narrow way to live life.