On both days wewear festive Christmas attire. Velvets, velours, reds, greens silver & golds. DS4.5 will have a sweater vest thing with long sleeve shirt, DD6 will have a "cheetah girl" dress (leopard print and the other is black velour with "cheetah" collar and wrists), I will be doing velvet slacks or gauchos w/ boots and DH is whatever the heck I tell him to wear. His family doesn't dress for ANYTHING. They have all since passed away, so now he has to dress (somewhat) for both days. This is his first year of no family. I willl go easy on the big guy. He can wear his cool jeans, dress shoes and a cool "blouse" (e hates when I call it that)