We always fly;it's only 2.5 hours out of Newark, so there's no way I'll consider 20 hours in a car. Many years ago my DH & I went on a fishing vacation w/friends in the wilds of Tenessee & our car blew the waterpump in West VA. @ 10:00 PM; after 7 hours in a truck stop & DH having to change it himself using the mechanics tools, because the mechanics were too busy, I swore that was it for long drives!!! Told DH if it's more that a five hour drive we fly.