I can sympathize with you, that's for sure. You need to do what you feel is right for your family. If you feel like you need space, then get it (no vacation will be great if someone feels like they need a little space and can't get it). Most of my vacations have been split in half. Half off property and half on property. Personally I have felt like I've had the best of both worlds. You also do have several options on property as well.
First, Off property:
Check into a home rental (many with pools - use this sites sponsor to look into one) or check out Skyauction for a 2 bedroom condo. There is a condo area called Silverlake that is only 1/2 mile outside of AKL. It is inbetween US192 in Kissimmee and AKL on an access road that brings you to Disney property. 2 bedrooms come up on that site for $300 for the week and plenty of people have had good vacations there.
Second, on property:
There are plenty of options here as well. First, you may want to bid for resort level hotel in WDW vicinity on Priceline. I have won bids for the DTD Hilton and DTD Wyndham hotels for between $60 to $70 per night. You still get all the basic benefits in that you can use there bus system to the parks or just walk across the street to DTD and catch Disney's buses. This way you can afford to rent two rooms. Check out a site called biddingfortravel.com. Make sure that you understand all Priceline rules and the study the bidding site. I haven't had a bad stay yet.
As others have suggested, rent DVC points for a one bedroom. Now I would suggest that you stay at OKW (little cheaper than the others) and then the kids can be in the living room while you are in the bedroom. If I am right, you should be able to get a rollaway bed for the 3rd child. This provides many options as you'll have a kitchen to offset some of the cost (breakfast is great to eat here as it is the easiest meal to cook) and you can make a lunch or dinner here a few times as well. Hot dogs and burgers are pretty easy as well as frozen pizzas or ham and cheese sandwiches (lets face it, taking an hour off to go to the store to buy some goods isn't going to kill anyone). You can also pack less due to the fact that you'll have a washer/dryer in the unit and do a load of laundry 1/2 way through the vacation. This same theory also applies to the Wilderness Cabins in Fort Wilderness. Now be aware that Sun - Thurs stays at DVC resorts are cheaper than weekend stays. You can always start your vacation at one of the value or moderates and move to the DVC on Sunday.
Lastly, you can always wait for a code or some sort of FTP deal and get two rooms at a value or moderate. If room is what you need then make sure you find some sort of way to get it. Its not a good vacation if everyone is feeling stressed because theres one tv, one bathroom, people have to constantly move to get around beds and luggage. I know that there are those here that have the patience to live through sleeping in one room but then there are people, like me, who at times just needs some piece and quiet and a little time alone.
Don't fret it, just make some sort of change that will make you happy.
First, Off property:
Check into a home rental (many with pools - use this sites sponsor to look into one) or check out Skyauction for a 2 bedroom condo. There is a condo area called Silverlake that is only 1/2 mile outside of AKL. It is inbetween US192 in Kissimmee and AKL on an access road that brings you to Disney property. 2 bedrooms come up on that site for $300 for the week and plenty of people have had good vacations there.
Second, on property:
There are plenty of options here as well. First, you may want to bid for resort level hotel in WDW vicinity on Priceline. I have won bids for the DTD Hilton and DTD Wyndham hotels for between $60 to $70 per night. You still get all the basic benefits in that you can use there bus system to the parks or just walk across the street to DTD and catch Disney's buses. This way you can afford to rent two rooms. Check out a site called biddingfortravel.com. Make sure that you understand all Priceline rules and the study the bidding site. I haven't had a bad stay yet.
As others have suggested, rent DVC points for a one bedroom. Now I would suggest that you stay at OKW (little cheaper than the others) and then the kids can be in the living room while you are in the bedroom. If I am right, you should be able to get a rollaway bed for the 3rd child. This provides many options as you'll have a kitchen to offset some of the cost (breakfast is great to eat here as it is the easiest meal to cook) and you can make a lunch or dinner here a few times as well. Hot dogs and burgers are pretty easy as well as frozen pizzas or ham and cheese sandwiches (lets face it, taking an hour off to go to the store to buy some goods isn't going to kill anyone). You can also pack less due to the fact that you'll have a washer/dryer in the unit and do a load of laundry 1/2 way through the vacation. This same theory also applies to the Wilderness Cabins in Fort Wilderness. Now be aware that Sun - Thurs stays at DVC resorts are cheaper than weekend stays. You can always start your vacation at one of the value or moderates and move to the DVC on Sunday.
Lastly, you can always wait for a code or some sort of FTP deal and get two rooms at a value or moderate. If room is what you need then make sure you find some sort of way to get it. Its not a good vacation if everyone is feeling stressed because theres one tv, one bathroom, people have to constantly move to get around beds and luggage. I know that there are those here that have the patience to live through sleeping in one room but then there are people, like me, who at times just needs some piece and quiet and a little time alone.
Don't fret it, just make some sort of change that will make you happy.