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When my brother in law housesits for us, I change the sheets and pillowcases on our bedroom - having him sleep in our sheets would be gross. But I don't change our bedspread or make sure he has a complete change of blankets. I make sure that the dishes are done and put away - but I don't make sure that my daughter didn't do me the favor of putting away a dirty coffee cup into the cupboard sometime last week - don't have time to check every cup. I mop and vaccuum, but I don't get out the carpet scrubber or try and get six month old stains off the couch. If the drapes are dropping their hems, it probably isn't going to get fixed right away, nor do I make sure every lightbulb in the house is functional. I make sure our more personal stuff is put away (he doesn't need my lingere out on my dresser), but if there are cheerios under the bed I don't know what he is doing looking under the bed.
OTOH, BIL probably isn't spending his hard-earned cash to stay at casa crisi nor is he paying anyone for cleaning services. (just trying to point out the "other side" of the story)
Your guest room sounds awesome - for a guest room in a private home. I'm not sure the hospitality industry would, or should, use the same criteria for setting expectations though.
Unfortunately, money changes everything. If I'm charged for a service, I kind of want the service to be something of value. If it's free, I'm much more forgiving.