I have not read all of this thread yet, but I was wondering if some of you could help me out with this? I am debating whether or not to send DS3 to preschool next year two days a week. Most preschools require him to be potty trained, and the only one I've found that doesn't is three days a week which I feel is too much for him. He's an only child, so I am worried about socialization. We've also had a very hard time potty training, and I really hate forcing a child do something when they're not ready. He is capable, but it has turned into a power struggle. My pediatrician's office advised me to back off for a bit, and wait until late spring, early summer and try again. Theory, he'll be a little bit older, and I'll have some paid time off. I work part time, but only 4 days a week. However, I need a longer stretch of time than my three days a week to get him on board for potty training. When I'm at work, three days, he is with my mother. I guess my questions are as follows: have any of you home schooled at the preschool age? Is there a curriculum for three year olds? Would you recommend my getting involved in a playgroup so that he will have some time with kids? I'm really looking for some guidance here, and hoping you all have some thoughts can lead my family in the right direction for our situation. Thank you so much!