Christine
DIS Legend
- Joined
- Aug 31, 1999
- Messages
- 32,603
I am so sorry that you are getting questioned/flamed here. I see no reason.
Thanks, it's just what people like to do here. As well as read into things that I haven't really said but I've been around here long enough to know that it's just the way it is.
It sounds like the situation today is much different/worse than it was years ago.
You say that she now has as many as two aides, which indicates that she has even more children. She has probably taken on some kids for 'summer care' while school is out? It also sounds like the ages and behaviors of the children have changed.
It has definitely changed. When my son hypocritically was in her care

Just personally, I have to admit that I would also be very aware that she is openly breaking HOA rules. It might be tempting to shut her down.. But, it doesn't sound like the HOA is going to do anything anyhow.
If I went to the HOA and had one of the members come by and listen, I can probably guarantee that they most certainly shut her down. Especially since precedent has been set in our region for this with other HOAs. But I really don't want to do that. I don't really care so much about "rules" so long as everyone is minding their P's and Q's.