You understand the situation really well.There really is no answer, and we know we are not dealing with the situation as we probably should, but there it is. I am not usually one to walk away from a situation, part of my issue is that it is my DH's parents, not mine. Not that I don't want to deal with it, but there are 4 siblings that have to work it out, and I'm not one of them.
If I allowed myself.. I would be one as well. I have a VERY hard time letting go of my kids clothes along with other kid stuff..
