I wonder if Ben Franklin who made the quote below would buy in a HOA development?Being part of an HOA is a choice and comes with compromise. You lose certain liberties in exchange for the benefit of certain standards. A rule may sound silly but doesn’t make it ok to ignore. Either work it out with the others or abide.
"Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety."

Even after all due diligence, including a professional review of the Condo Bylaws, I found myself in breach of a MAJOR amendment that had apparently been made mid-year. The seller was a very elderly lady who didn’t keep up with the notices and her realtor and lawyer hadn’t pulled new documents, just provides the ones that were provided to her after the last general meeting. None of us knew, or had any reason to suspect. We ended up obtaining an exemption, but it just about got ugly.