Interesting hearing all your stories of moving into dorms! My two aren't interested in dorm living at this time, so they're commuting. They have four options: driving, public transportation, commuter rail, and carpooling. They've been exploring all of them this summer to figure out times, traffic patterns and costs, etc. Although they're going to the same school, their schedules are very different so they'll be going in separately on most days, probably.
For graduation, DD wanted a full size bed and to do her room over. She did most of it herself, purging most of her childhood things, and made a beautiful Zen-like space which she loves! I think she'll get a lot of work done there without a lot of stress. She'll keep the jobs she loves and with which makes good money. (Her goal is to buy a condo she has her eye on shortly after college graduation, which we wholeheartedly support!) We started a while ago making sure she isn't relying on us, so she's been taking care of business matters herself and doing her own laundry, cooking for herself, etc. She's already figured out where all her classes are and knows the campus well as she's been going there since she was in middle school. She's still getting involved in activities at school - she's attending a party before school starts and enrolled in the gym this summer, etc. She's happy. DS is still heavily involved in summer sports and working too, but he's chipping away at things, as well. Both are happy with their choices, but we'll continue to re-evaluate as time goes on. He'll be playing his sport in college so his days will be long, but he's up for the challenge.
Who else is commuting?