Anyone else's kid having second thoughts on where they are applying to? She is still happy with all her choices, but we keep getting mounds of mail, and there have been more than a few with free applications. Some of them are "no way" right off the bat, but some are causing her to think "why not?"
Her guidance counselor is no help. DD dropped off a recommendation form a few weeks ago, and when she went to pick it up, the counselor told her she did not know if she could complete it. DDs counselor for the first three years of hs retired, so she has a brand new counselor. I understand that the counselor doesn't know dd all that well, but this particular application REQUIRED a school counselor's input (and it was pretty much a check-off form with rank, types off classes, etc.).
So, to get to know dd, the counselor decided to chat about dd's college choices. First, she told her she was applying to too many schools. Six, and we have visited all except one. The reason for six is we need to get the best financial aid pkg. possible-dd would be happy at any of these schools. Then she asked dd what her top choice is. When dd answered, counselor responded with "Do you know how far away that is ?" Umm, yes---again, we visited. It's about 6 hours by car. Then, about one of her choices, the counselor actually said, " Oh. You might want to rethink that one." Actually, it's a pretty common reaction up here in the NE---Yankee snobbery I guess. The school is Alabama, and we have researched it. It could be cheaper than our state school because dd qualifies for free tuition. The honors program seems to be great. This is the one school we haven't visited, but we will if it becomes necessary. Oh, and the last bubble- headed thing the counselor did was try to tell dd most schools use SAT score for scholarships, and she would be making a mistake if she listed her ACT scores on her transcript. (DDs school automatically lists SAT scores on the official transcript. Her ACT scores were better than her SATS, so dd requested they remove her SAT and list her ACT. Most schools require they be sent officially through the testing service anyhow, but unless the school requires the SAT score also, dd would rather they not see it. It's not a bad score; just that her ACT is so much better.)
So, I wonder if we will send the counselor over the edge if dd decides to apply to a couple more schools?