The Dolphin is my FAVORITE resort, and I have stayed in value, moderate and Deluxe resorts throughout Disneyworld! Let me start by saying that the Swan & Dolphin gives you a choice of about 20 different restaurants to choose from. The Boardwalk is a hop, skip and a jump away, where u have unlimited dining and entertainment options too.
The beds at the Swan & Dolphin truly are "heavenly", it will be the best sleep u ever have! When u walk into the lobby of the Dolphin, it is absolutely beautiful, especially during the holidays. In my opinion, u cant find a better pool then at the Dolphin. waterfalls and a slide are just a couple of things that make this pool so special.
As far as the hotel not feeling "Disney", We've had a perfect view of the fireworks in Epcot right from our balcony. How much more Disney can u get?? There are also various character dining options. o.k., so they dont give u the Mickey shampoo and soaps, if u cant live without that, then dont stay here. As far as it being a convention hotel, yes there are conventions here, but there are plenty of families vacationing here too. besides, seeing people in business suits throughout the resort makes me feel happier that I am on vacation!!
Transportation to Epcot or Mgm is a short boatride away. It is so much easier then getting on a bus. It is also very enjoyable after a long day at the parks!
I dont think you can go wrong with the Swan or the Dolphin, especially if u are getting a good discount. These resorts truly are 5 star resorts and I dont think u will be dissapointed.