It is not an option in our house because we firmly believe that going away to college is about more than what you learn in the classroom and that transferring into college 2 years later does not give you the same experience as starting out as a freshman at that school. That was our experience in college and same with pretty much everyone we know. I also don't believe the classes are "exactly" the same-I know they are no where near the same here as the community colleges are not tied to the state schools like they are in other areas. Also, quite frankly, our kids are smarter than that. I am sure this will come off sounding snobbish but they can do better than community college and we want them to. DS14 has his sights set pretty high for college and going to a community college for a year or two first would do him a huge disservice. DD will most likely get a golf scholarship and again, going to a community college will do her a huge disservice. DS17 has zero interest in going that route and has tried to talk some of his friends out of doing that because he knows they will never finish if they go that route.
I think the worst thing you can do for your child is limit where they go to school because of money. If they want to go somewhere that badly, they can make it work, especially if they are a good student-colleges WANT them and will help them find the money.
You have got to be FREAKIN kidding me!!!! Okay...so im going to say what I can without getting points or banned frmo the boards....
So I went to community college (finishing up my 2nd year) and I am transferring to either UCLA, UC Irvine or UC Santa Barbara to get my BA in Psychology with a focus in child development. I am planning on going on to get my Masters in Psycholgy and my PhD or PsyD in Developmental Psychology. I am a semester ahead so I will have a full semester to get my minor in Early Childhood Development as well as my bachelors.
My friends at school are transferring to UC San Diego, UCLA, UC Berkley, ASU, Cal Poly, etc.
So im guessign your saying that we are not as good as your kids. That we are not as smart as your kids becasue we went to a community college?
In california, the community colleges work with the UC and CSU schools for transferring. You get a list of major prep courses from the schools you want to transfer to and you complete those courses at the community college. You commpelte what is called an IGETC. Its general Ed requirements. They are the same as what are offered at the four-year schools. In ways, I think they are better becasue they are not a lecture class with hundreds od kids in them. Most of our classes max out at 35-40 kids. Some have up to 50, while teh science classes have 25.
I had teh grades to get into a 4 year school. You have no idea what the situation is of kids at community colleges. I couldnt go 2 hours away to school. Wasnt an option. Too many medical issues. Too many hospitalizations. I needed to be near MY doctors adn MY hospital. An dyou know what. A BIG advantage was that yes, it saved A LOT of money. I will be able to pay for all of my undergraduate schooling except for one semester.
And there is no difference between kids finishing school whetehr they start at community college or whetehr they start at a 4 year school. If a kid isnt determinefd to compelte school, it wont mean a rats behind where they started.
I was able to have course loads of 15 credits, work 20-25 hours/wee, volunteer at the childrens hospital AND handle my doctors appts and hospitalizations in teh past 2 years. I can guarantee that I have gotten more life experience, more job experience, and more tiem management skills than most people at 4 year shcools.
So DONT YOU DARE make any remarks about community college. DONT YOU DARE look down on people who begin at community college. DONT YOU DARE!!!