Until EMH returns shortly, the perks of a Disney resort are few. Location is about all they can offer at the moment, but, for me, that’s enough that they get my dollars.
As has been said a few times upthread, location is HUGE. I sincerely believe that it can make the trip. It’s so nice (and now essential) to be able to go back to the hotel midday, or hop on Disney transport and be whisked to a park. Imagine being ready to go home and having to pack everything and everyone up, get in line, take a long ride, amd then have to schlep to T
I’d point you to the Epcot area resorts. So easy to walk to Epcot, the water and boardwalk are so nice to relax near, and HS is a super quick boat ride.
No, it’s not particularly convenient to MK. And I realize that the littluns are happiest there. HOWEVER: MK is a madhouse at the moment, with limited entertainment options to thin crowds. The hour leading up to HEA is frenzied, and I think you’d probably want to be out of there by then. So now you have a bunch of ways to get to/from Epcot to MK.
If fireworks at MK are essential, disregard my advice entirely! The trip back to any non-MK resort at park close can seem ENDLESS.
Take too many pictures, have too much fun, and enjoy every minute. I swear, the magic isn’t just marketing.