I had this question. My guy is 43.5" tall right now and we are heading to Magic Kingdom for one day before our Disney Cruise in February. I am certain he will be over 44" in shoes, but wasn't sure if the measurements account for shoes or not. Do they? Seems to be a mixed bag. I am less concerned about disappointing him because I know I can manage expectations, and more concerned about potentially wasting a fast pass on Space Mountain if he won't hit the 44" mark. What would you do?
The way I handled a child I thought might be too short was tell her that she wasn't tall enough but we would measure her at the ride so we knew how much she needed to grow for the next trip. If the child makes it, do let him know that there's a chance he might not be tall enough at the next measurement spot - as there's one inside the ride too. When my daughter made it surprisingly through the 40", I expressed my surprise to her and let her know there was one more place to get measured and there was a chance she wouldn't make it - since she didn't make it at home.
As for wasting a fast pass, it's not really a waste if the family is doing it together since you can use child swap. Also - though I wouldn't get special shoes - new sneakers before the trip might help. Not getting special ones, but newer ones might have a little more height and still fall within normal safety considerations. And though I've heard of them making people taking off their shoes, I haven't heard of it with normal shoes before. My daughter who has a history of being borderline on many, many trips has never had to take her shoes off. She always wears regular sneakers. (Not always purchased right before our trip, though they were before the 40" trip due to her needing some then. We all wear running type sneakers in the parks due to comfort and they will add some height).
