Golfing Goofy, we like to do an EPCOT / MK resort split stay as well. Disney makes it so convenient (we are so lazy we wouldn't do it otherwise

). I would love to do 10 days at the Grand too, though!
Well, I whined and got BF to agree that we should add two days to the beginning of our wedding trip, so we will have seven nights at Disney and then four nights on the Wonder. I am feeling much better now, as I thought five nights was not going to be enough, considering all of the activities we had planned, and I was getting VERY stressed over the whole thing.
I don't know BF's family very well, and I keep asking him questions like "would they like this" "they wouldn't do this, would they" and "They wouldn't think we should...". He told me that he thinks I hate his family

!?! That is not true, I just want to make sure everyone is on the same page (ie, no one shows up to our wedding in shorts,
crocs, or t-shirts; people understand we are not going to pay for all group meals, etc.

) All the guests on my side know what is expected on them (ie money, food, park time, wedding day attire, etc.) and I just want him to relay the same things to the guests from his side. I tried to explain to him that I DON'T KNOW THEM in more than a cursory manner so I don't know what they will or won't do in any situation but his family is a touchy subject for him I guess. It never has been before
I've already cancelled an event that I wanted to do on the day immediatly before the wedding with just the women I am close to on my side. I am not a partier, so I was going to do a sort of lunch/mini golf thing with my mom, my bridesmaids, and another woman I am VERY close with (one of those mom-like figures, KWIM) as a substitute for a bachelorette party. BF threw a fit because I didn't want to invite anyone from his side. He was also angry because he said I deliberatly picked an activity his mother wouldn't want to do!

No, I just picked something my girls and I would think is fun! I really wasn't being rude, I don't think. I wanted to have a nice, relaxing day with my girls that I am closest to. I am uncomfortable with people I don't know well, and so are some of my girls. We have a dinner with EVERYONE that evening anyway, so I just didn't see where it was rude?

. Maybe that is immature of me, but I thought that if I invited ONLY those I am very close to no one could really throw a fit. I just nixed the whole thing because I don't need the stress and the drama and I don't want to cause strife. My day won't be relaxing if I have to do two huge events, and it wasn't that important anyway, I guess, so I guess we will just do the dinner

.
Hopefully, adding these two days will give us more time for ourselves, which is my main concern. I thought with only five nights, we were packing so much into our limited time that we wouldn't have any time for ourselves until the cruise. Now, I hope more time will help alleviate this.
He is not trying to be pig headed, he just dosen't understand how much planning I do for these trips, and that is fine. I want him to think that everything just magically falls into place!

. He loves Disney a lot, but he dosen't "get" it the way we on theses boards do. He thinks being alone on the cruise will be enough, where it was a terrible thought to me that we wouldn't get to share any time alone on the Disney portion of our Honeymoon.
Okay, rant and whining over. Sorry, I just needed to let it out!
Anyway, good luck to all who are doing WW!
