1. No reason to get so testy, I just asked a question. Sorry, can't stay with a thread constantly, have to work.
2. Who said I was trying to prove you wrong?
BTW, you sure do spend an awful lot of time "overhearing" others conversations.
But, whatever, you will continue to believe exactly what you want about whomever you want and nothing I nor anyone else says will change your mind. You want to think bad of everyone that receives assistance and never give them the benefit of the doubt? Do so--no skin off my nose.
I think the reason I have never heard anything like any of this and others say they haven't may be because we don't assume these things about anyone, we don't look for the few that do take advantage of the system; we see the ones that the system does help. You tend to find what you look for and if you always look for the bad apples, then that is what you will always find.