Harnesses

Originally posted by C.Ann
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But to imply that those who DO use them are doing so because it's "a lazy way to keep an eye on their child" is certainly uncalled for..

I only said that because I felt that I was being singled out personally...I didn't mean to offend anyone. I did try to give my opposing view in the nicest way.

Let's just agree to disagree.;)
 
I'm sorry, but isn't it called a five point harness in a car seat? I would hope that all parents buckle their children in when in the car. Also strollers have seatbelts - alot of the newer ones also offer the five point HARNESS. For our children's safety we buckle them in. So then, why is it safe for a toddler to be walking unrestrained in a crowd of thousands of people? (and holding a parent's hand is unrestrained) I am not saying that every moment my child is in a harness at Disney, but the majority of the time she is. For her safety.
 
No rain falling from me! I have twin daughters and Harnesses were my sanity especially once they were mobile!!! Use your harness and dont worry about what other people think! You have a lot of love invested in your little one and the last thing you want to do is turn around and find her gone! If someone says somehting to you, just tell them you are protecting your investment! :)




Originally posted by walls1999
I know I am going to catch a lot of flack for this question but, I want to know. I am thinking about buying a harness for my three year old. She has a tenedency to wander and I am very worried about the crowds. I will be bringing a stroller for her but, when we get the parades and inside exhibits she will not be in it and I just want that little bit of security. So, anyway let the rain fall.:D
 
As the mom of a VERY energetic and outgoing 2 year old who likes to talk to strangers and loves crowds, I was in a bit of a quandry over whether or not to harness him for our upcoming trip to Disney. I racked my brains and did a lot of surfing on the web to come up with some alternatives. Maybe this will work, and maybe not. How about a backpack? And I don't mean any run of the mill type either. I found a website www.4coolkids.com
They have some animal backpacks with "TAILS" that a parent could hold on to and I believe can actually be attached to ones' wrist, fannypack, belt loop, etc. I would think it looks less conspicuous. I opted not to order one simply because they have a front and back animal feature, which I was afraid would get too hot and make it a tad uncomfortable to wear in the Florida heat. What I did do, though, was go on Ebay. I found a full feature Eeyore pack with a tail. I'm currently trying to win the auction, and figured my DH, who is a great handyman, could devise a way that a 2 year could not easily slip out of it. It looks from the picture, that the tail or even Eeyores ears could be held by the parent, thereby giving the child a little personal "space" while keeping him close. It's a bit more pricey than a regular harness, but if it works, I figure it's worth it.
 

I want to illustrate a little further the point that Bev made about reins being just another safety issue when you live in a pedestrian environment (which we all should agree that WDW certainly is.)

My older siblings were all born in the UK. One day late in 1944, Mom was walking along a very busy, very steep street in Leeds, which is an industrial city in the north of England. She was on her way to go stand in line for her rationed groceries, this being WW2. She had my older sister, who was 3, walking on reins, and my brother, who was 9 months, in a pram.

As she started to step off the curb to cross the street (Coal Hill Lane, for anyone who knows Leeds), she slipped and broke her leg, and also hit her head on the way down and knocked herself unconscious. My sister was safe because her reins were looped around Mom's wrist, but my brother was not so lucky. She lost her grip on the pram and it careened wildly into the street. By some miracle, none of the vehicles hit the pram, and someone finally managed to stop it nearly a quarter-mile away. However, it could not be connected to my mother, and when she woke up she was frantic because her baby was missing. He was taken to a hospital by the police, where my father managed to find him late that evening.

By the time I came along some years later, after they emigrated to the US, it was evident that my mother had learned a lesson from that incident. Even in a stroller, I wore reins, and the strap was looped around the stroller handle AND my mother's wrist. She wasn't taking any chances.

Last week at Universal, I fell down a set of steps while leaving a restaurant, and yes, I bumped my head and lost my grip on my son's hand. My DS is 6, but if he had been 2? You bet he would have been wearing reins, firmly looped around my wrist.
 
Why can't everyone just state their opinion WHILE being NICE? I can't believe how many people's attitudes come across in their posts... not to mention the name calling!?! (Obviously I don't mean everyone...but I can't be the only one to notice this...not only on this thread, but oftentimes when an opinion is requested.)

As to the subject of this thread...I think if it makes you feel better to use a harness, then by all means do so. YOU are the parent of YOUR child and it should make no difference what others think. They are free to use or not use a harness with their children, as they see fit.

Personally, I don't feel it would be treating your child like an animal. Any extra safety precaution taken can't be anything but good (as long as it is EXTRA and the child is still being watched). Better safe than sorry. All the "I wish I had's" in the world won't bring back a lost child, right?
 
Now that we've all kissed and made-up, who of you would like to fly up to my place for a fun-filled weekend with your pilot buddy, Captain Bram??
 
Very Funny! Can my husband and kids come too???:D :D :D :D :D
 


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