Grand Villa Help!!!!

[wildernessDad]

Remember the golden rule - he who has the gold rules. You have the DVC gold. You tell them how it's going to be.

 

[Greysword]

...the SIL who's in charge and the brother who is letting her run the show.

I was thinking along these lines, as well. Bottom line, my input would be to call the SIL directly and find out who ask whom for what lmao and what "they" (she and BIL nuclear family) were hoping to get from the trip. The BIL is acting as a conduit, so it is better to go to the source.

In fact, it may be better to suggest they plan a trip just with the grandparents for their first visit, and you'll sit this one out. You can plan to spend the second (next) year with them, instead. Of course, you can offer to help SIL and her parents plan the trip by providing great information (such as Mousesavers.com, touringplans.com, etc). I wouldn't offer the room; however.

If you talk to SIL and get the impression her parents are inviting themselves, you let her know in specific terms that you want to have atrip just with them, and having her parents will muddy things too much.

Good luck, and remember we are here for moral support!

 

[momberry]

Wow! Sounds like I struck a nerve on this board! So glad it’s not just me!

Wanted to post an update.....Well……here’s the deal. I’ve upgraded to the 3BR at AKV Kidani….and waitlisted at OKW. I had a chat with my brother….he knows that we were annoyed (to say the least) about them trying to kick us out of our room. He insists that it’s b/c of his 2 year old having to keep on his sleeping schedule. (I believe that it’s b/c sil thinks her parents should be w/ the grandbaby). Got emails the next day after the chat from BOTH my brother and his wife thanking profusely about the trip….AND…to mention that we need to have a night out just the 4 of us since we’ll have babysitters along!

A little more to the story…..my parents bought into DVC years ago. They died in 2004 and 2006. My brother didn’t want the DVC membership so I got it, and he got the equivalent $$ of other stuff. But anyway….….now it’s just the two of us. So he’s the only family I have……granted they’re the grandparents….BUT....he’s my only family. (Not to mention it’s OUR timeshare!) We don’t really know his in-laws (did I mention his brother-in-law is coming too?)…..BUT…..life is too short, and family is too scarce to cause a major rift. My parents would be rolling over in their graves if they knew that this DVC was causing issues.

Thanks to everyone for your support and input! I love this board!!!

PS----I did make it very clear that WE have the master bedroom…..THEY have the upstairs.

 

[RachaelA]

Wow! Sounds like I struck a nerve on this board! So glad it’s not just me!

Wanted to post an update.....Well……here’s the deal. I’ve upgraded to the 3BR at AKV Kidani….and waitlisted at OKW. I had a chat with my brother….he knows that we were annoyed (to say the least) about them trying to kick us out of our room. He insists that it’s b/c of his 2 year old having to keep on his sleeping schedule. (I believe that it’s b/c sil thinks her parents should be w/ the grandbaby). Got emails the next day after the chat from BOTH my brother and his wife thanking profusely about the trip….AND…to mention that we need to have a night out just the 4 of us since we’ll have babysitters along!

A little more to the story…..my parents bought into DVC years ago. They died in 2004 and 2006. My brother didn’t want the DVC membership so I got it, and he got the equivalent $$ of other stuff. But anyway….….now it’s just the two of us. So he’s the only family I have……granted they’re the grandparents….BUT....he’s my only family. (Not to mention it’s OUR timeshare!) We don’t really know his in-laws (did I mention his brother-in-law is coming too?)…..BUT…..life is too short, and family is too scarce to cause a major rift. My parents would be rolling over in their graves if they knew that this DVC was causing issues.

Thanks to everyone for your support and input! I love this board!!!

PS----I did make it very clear that WE have the master bedroom…..THEY have the upstairs.

Your brother is full of you know what! I'm glad you don't believe that excuse.

Good luck! Definitely take advantage of the free babysitters. You are waaaaaay nicer then I'll ever be with our DVC membership.

 

[Cricket2]

I'd get a coupon book of those babysitter deals and cash every one of them in. Go out and have fun as often as you can with the BIL and let the grandfolk earn their keep (in a GV no less). I'll come babysit for that matter and I'll guarantee I show up on time for dinner every night

I still have a stomach ache just reading this thread because so many of us have gone through such simmilar situations that we see the gas tanker over the railroad tracks and the train isn't slowng down. How sad it is that I had to develop failsafe procedures for my own family to follow as to not ruin any more trips?

 

[lilpooh108]

Wow! Sounds like I struck a nerve on this board! So glad it’s not just me!

Wanted to post an update.....Well……here’s the deal. I’ve upgraded to the 3BR at AKV Kidani….and waitlisted at OKW. I had a chat with my brother….he knows that we were annoyed (to say the least) about them trying to kick us out of our room. He insists that it’s b/c of his 2 year old having to keep on his sleeping schedule. (I believe that it’s b/c sil thinks her parents should be w/ the grandbaby). Got emails the next day after the chat from BOTH my brother and his wife thanking profusely about the trip….AND…to mention that we need to have a night out just the 4 of us since we’ll have babysitters along!

A little more to the story…..my parents bought into DVC years ago. They died in 2004 and 2006. My brother didn’t want the DVC membership so I got it, and he got the equivalent $$ of other stuff. But anyway….….now it’s just the two of us. So he’s the only family I have……granted they’re the grandparents….BUT....he’s my only family. (Not to mention it’s OUR timeshare!) We don’t really know his in-laws (did I mention his brother-in-law is coming too?)…..BUT…..life is too short, and family is too scarce to cause a major rift. My parents would be rolling over in their graves if they knew that this DVC was causing issues.

Thanks to everyone for your support and input! I love this board!!!

PS----I did make it very clear that WE have the master bedroom…..THEY have the upstairs.

I'm glad it worked out! It's so nice of you to accomodate them, and it's nice that they were so appreciative. Hope you have a great time, and seriously take advantage of the free babysitting

 

[dianeschlicht]

I'm glad you got things resolved to your satisfaction (sort of). I still think the trip itself is going to be a TFH (Trip From Hell). If they felt entitled to invite the In-laws, then the same and worse will happen on the trip.

 

[Be1021]

That is just crazy, but I d have to say the hands down the best room I have ever stayed in anywhere is the Jambo house grand villa!

 

[mjc2003]

"I’ve upgraded to the 3BR at AKV Kidani….and waitlisted at OKW."


I think that's a fine solution.
We are staying in a Kidani GV in just a few weeks, Nov 10th-14th (Thurs-Mon) and then over to BCV for 6 nights. Also with family, two of my sisters are each bringing 2 of their kids, and then the in-laws are joining us at BCV. So far so good, no bickering, everybody seems very excited and appreciative (fingers crossed).

I will be sure to get you feedback on the AKV GV.

Of course, I wouldn't be surprised if your OKW came through. I have not stayed in an OKW GV, but have heard they are really big and the points are quite a bargain....so good luck if that's your first choice!

 

[KAT4DISNEY]

One thing to be thankful for is that now you get to stay in a Grand Villa! Be certain to do things you want to and recognize it'll be different than the original trip you planned. That doesn't mean it'll be bad -just different. And hopefully the in-laws will be a bit more considerate than your sibling.

 

[dbs1228]

My 1st reaction was outrage to say the least, but good for you for letting them know you were annoyed to say the least and you moved on with a VERY nice solution! I hope karma is with you and this ends up being a spectacular trip for all of you! Who knows you may want DB and SIL to stay back while you paint the town with her parents! lol Enjoy your family you are making great memories!

 

[Dean]

Wow! Sounds like I struck a nerve on this board! So glad it’s not just me!

Wanted to post an update.....Well……here’s the deal. I’ve upgraded to the 3BR at AKV Kidani….and waitlisted at OKW. I had a chat with my brother….he knows that we were annoyed (to say the least) about them trying to kick us out of our room. He insists that it’s b/c of his 2 year old having to keep on his sleeping schedule. (I believe that it’s b/c sil thinks her parents should be w/ the grandbaby). Got emails the next day after the chat from BOTH my brother and his wife thanking profusely about the trip….AND…to mention that we need to have a night out just the 4 of us since we’ll have babysitters along!

A little more to the story…..my parents bought into DVC years ago. They died in 2004 and 2006. My brother didn’t want the DVC membership so I got it, and he got the equivalent $$ of other stuff. But anyway….….now it’s just the two of us. So he’s the only family I have……granted they’re the grandparents….BUT....he’s my only family. (Not to mention it’s OUR timeshare!) We don’t really know his in-laws (did I mention his brother-in-law is coming too?)…..BUT…..life is too short, and family is too scarce to cause a major rift. My parents would be rolling over in their graves if they knew that this DVC was causing issues.

Thanks to everyone for your support and input! I love this board!!!

PS----I did make it very clear that WE have the master bedroom…..THEY have the upstairs.

Other than your brother not owning up, it seems like this is working out about as well as it could at this point. I'm glad for that and glad for you. I think we all understand how important family is. Enjoy the trip.

 

[dbs1228]

btw please let us know how it goes and how you like the grand villa! I cannot wait to be able to book a GV one day!

 

[paults]

Wow! Sounds like I struck a nerve on this board! So glad it’s not just me!

Wanted to post an update.....Well……here’s the deal. I’ve upgraded to the 3BR at AKV Kidani….and waitlisted at OKW. I had a chat with my brother….he knows that we were annoyed (to say the least) about them trying to kick us out of our room. He insists that it’s b/c of his 2 year old having to keep on his sleeping schedule. (I believe that it’s b/c sil thinks her parents should be w/ the grandbaby). Got emails the next day after the chat from BOTH my brother and his wife thanking profusely about the trip….AND…to mention that we need to have a night out just the 4 of us since we’ll have babysitters along!

A little more to the story…..my parents bought into DVC years ago. They died in 2004 and 2006. My brother didn’t want the DVC membership so I got it, and he got the equivalent $$ of other stuff. But anyway….….now it’s just the two of us. So he’s the only family I have……granted they’re the grandparents….BUT....he’s my only family. (Not to mention it’s OUR timeshare!) We don’t really know his in-laws (did I mention his brother-in-law is coming too?)…..BUT…..life is too short, and family is too scarce to cause a major rift. My parents would be rolling over in their graves if they knew that this DVC was causing issues. Thanks to everyone for your support and input! I love this board!!!

PS----I did make it very clear that WE have the master bedroom…..THEY have the upstairs.

so how many are now in the GV, I lost count

I think you got it wrong that DVC was causing these issues, I believe you know where the problem lies.

Anyway have fun and good luck