I agree with OP. Beyond the implicit ideations of relaxation, Disney explicitly advertises Grand Floridian as elegant and sophisticated (
https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/resorts/grand-floridian-resort-and-spa/). Synonyms there include graceful and refined. Allowing throngs of non-paying guests to pack the lobby and jam the transportation is the opposite of that.
It’s a deluxe resort. In fact, of the small group of deluxe resorts, it’s usually the most expensive to stay at, by a good 10-30%. Intimately interwoven in the price of a stay there, or anywhere else, are the resort’s amenities. To simply allow anyone and everyone access to them, regardless of if they’re guests or not, is unfair to the guests who are paying for them.
Respectfully, I disagree with those who have stated to the effect ‘it’s great that Disney lets everybody in to see the decorations, that way they can experience the magic, regardless of their ability to pay.’ First, if people are paying to go to Disney World, the parks themselves have an awful lot of magic already. Particularly so when decorated around Christmas. Second, if people are actually doing what a commenter here posted, about local, non-Disney patrons / TikTokers simply showing up to get ‘completely free Disney entertainment’, that should certainly be discouraged.
How is allowing these masses of people in any different than if throngs of people were to show up, day after day, to crowd up to the windows and edges of balconies, to watch the fireworks from California Grill, but without dining there? If anything, my California Grill example is less egregious than what’s happening at GF, in that it would only be for a finite period of time and only once a day at a set time.
I am exceptionally far from elitist. I have never stayed at GF and probably never will. But, I do believe that you should get what you pay for, regarding hotels and most everything else in life. Allowing the paying guests to experience detriment of resort amenities at the hands of non-paying ‘guests’ is not fair.
Disney must know this is happening. They’re aware of occupancy rates for every day of the year. They’re aware of monorail wait times / usage for everyday of the year. Certainly they’re aware of incongruence; i.e., that monorail times are longer around the holidays at a disproportionate rate compared to occupancy.
while I personally wouldn’t do it, I don’t blame the people who are crowding the GF at the expense of guests. The majority of them are probably oblivious on the impact to hotel guests. Ignorance is bliss. However, Disney does not share that ignorance.