Our HS allows 6 for outside, 2 if it rains and it’s inside. My daughter graduated college in May, 4 guests for the stadium, 6 for convocations and honors. I’ve had 5 HS graduates, so I know they never check tickets, but many don’t realize this.Almost no one here would want an inside graduation not just because it will be hotter than heck inside but also that it would be limited. I think ours would have been 6 tickets per graduated had it been inside. Outside was no limitations because it was held in the football stadium.
Sure some families can get quite large but it can be hard to limit too. Take 6 for example (some I think were only 2 people per graduate!) that could be just the parents, siblings, and grandparents. A lot of people have more than that in their lives they would love to have there. Not the end of the world but none the less it can be disappointing.
When my sister-in-law graduated high school (although I wasn't married to my husband then I still attended) it was myself, my husband, the other sister-in-law, then the mom, step-dad, dad and his wife, then her step-siblings (well really just 2 of them she was closest with the other one she wasn't close to), then the husband of one of the step-siblings also very close to. These were close people to the graduate, hardly ancillary relatives but would have exceeded the limit most common it seems around here of 6. I know some people think there are people out there inviting the whole town but it's much more likely to be close enough people to the graduate in terms of the graduation. The party sorta depends on each family's way of doing things.
Or huge catered grad parties with three-digit guest lists.Never heard of graduation announcements until the Dis.
Yup here it’s just the grad dinner and dance end of June.Or huge catered grad parties with three-digit guest lists.It is a thing though. My sister travelled to Portland last year for her granddaughter's grad hoopla. It was exactly like some have described here.
We were invited, as were the girl's aunt and cousins from Victoria & Cornerbrook. Needless to say, only Grandma actually went.
I know they check if it's inside but they only give the tickets in the first place in case inside is required. Otherwise the tickets were not needed.Our HS allows 6 for outside, 2 if it rains and it’s inside. My daughter graduated college in May, 4 guests for the stadium, 6 for convocations and honors. I’ve had 5 HS graduates, so I know they never check tickets, but many don’t realize this.
This is how its treated in pretty much all of the situations (friends, other relatives, in-laws, etc) I've been exposed to. It's about celebrating the next big step in the individual's life. Same for college graduation.My family has always viewed the graduation announcement as more of a declaration of adulthood. It's a milestone moment, and we do think it's important to make sure extended family know about it,
Eh it's all related. The OP is invited to a what most are assuming a party by a relative they have no real connection with, the discussion then included inviting people in general to graduation events be it limitations or presumption of closeness to the graduate. The several Canadians on the thread are per usual flummoxed at the Americanized viewpoint to graduation (not a negative just the usual conversations being made with this topic).OP - like the derailed thread discusses, I think this one has too! What did you decide?
As I said...OP, I'd love to hear an update from you! Sorry, but posting pictures of your graduations maybe somewhat related, but is a derailment. @Mackenzie Click-Mickelson Own it! I do when I've derailed. Guilty plenty of times![]()
FWIW, American here, and graduation announcements aren’t a thing here either.Eh it's all related. The OP is invited to a what most are assuming a party by a relative they have no real connection with, the discussion then included inviting people in general to graduation events be it limitations or presumption of closeness to the graduate. The several Canadians on the thread are per usual flummoxed at the Americanized viewpoint to graduation (not a negative just the usual conversations being made with this topic).
Yeah it was more a comment about how the same several Canadian posters tend to chime in whenever this topic is brought up (which is what every year I think??) expressing their confusion. By now majority of us realize it's not a thing in CanadaFWIW, American here, and graduation announcements aren’t a thing here either.
Well, no, but it does clarify when the relative in question has lost track and thinks that child Z is 12 years old, or has perhaps lost track of which kid is the offspring of which cousin. (We often use family names, so there may be more than one in the same generation with the same name.) In our case it also spelled out the next step, which people are often interested to hear.We never sent out high school graduation announcements, because frankly, there was no other option.