One of my pet peeves!What is the etiquette for sending/receiving graduation invitations/announcements? I just received a graduation invitation from a relative for their son graduating from high school. I haven't spoken to this relative in years, they do not interact with anything I post on social media. We live on different coasts (CA vs NJ) so will not be able to make the graduation party in June. I'm assuming they do not expect us to come to the graduation party, just want us to send $$$.
I was a little taken aback because of the lack of interaction up until this point. What is your take?
I never sent any out. No idea if they were common in 1975, but my mom was of the mindset that Graduation is just an expected thing for an 18 year old. I have 16 cousins and I don't remember getting announcements from any of them. My mom and my brother and sister in law were the only ones who attended my Graduation ceremony.
My kids had no interest in sending them out when they graduated in 2005 and 2009 so we didn't order any. My mom, my brother and my sister in law, my wife and I were the only ones who attended my kids Graduation. Their school limited how many people who could come and I guess there was some drama for some families who wanted to invite more people than they could get tickets for.
The cost of card is typically just going to be the postage stamp assuming it's not heavy (I think it needs to be something like less than an ounce to not have an additional charge) and normal size.Just curious...what's the cost of postage for your basic invitation-type thing? Here it's $0.95. I think that's somewhat of a deterrent to people who would just mail something to tons and tons of people. Almost all the invitations and announcements I've received in the past few years have been e-vites; even for formal events.
Almost no one here would want an inside graduation not just because it will be hotter than heck inside but also that it would be limited. I think ours would have been 6 tickets per graduated had it been inside. Outside was no limitations because it was held in the football stadium.Their school limited how many people who could come and I guess there was some drama for some families who wanted to invite more people than they could get tickets for.
Geez, what a way to see the world. Getting something from a relative is their attempt to win "the lottery." "They know what they did." Gack.One of my pet peeves!
Too many people just go through the address book and send to everyone expecting money in return. It's rude! I know my Mom once received one from one of my husbands relatives .......... like no. I told her to throw it in the trash. To them it's like the lottery - they spend the cost of the mailing and stamp to see it if will pay out in cash. You are under ZERO obligation to send anything, not even a card.
When my kids graduated we sent announcement to grandparents and a couple family members we were very close to but they lived far. We had a small party at our home and only invited those we knew who would come because they were involved in our lives, and lived close to us. Did not invite if they weren't within an hour of us.
They know what they did, you know what they did ... I'd ignore it.
Opposite here if heat is the issue. People want it inside where it's air conditioned because it can get to 100 degrees here in May and June. Actually, this is an issue that just came up with California State University Sacramento graduation. They are scheduled to graduate at the arena the Sacramento Kings play at, and if the Kings are still in the playoffs in May, the arena won't be available so they will have to use their stadium.Almost no one here would want an inside graduation not just because it will be hotter than heck inside
Yeah, I got flamed when I suggested parents pay for their kids College Education.I remember a thread from a few years ago where I said what you are saying; that graduation from high school is expected. I was eaten alive and had people telling me that they felt sorry for my kid and that I shouldn’t have had her if I wasn’t willing to celebrate things. It was bonkers.
Well May can get humid here (or cold it was like 30s when my sister graduated) but I was meaning cramming a bunch of bodies in a gym it gets very hot. Inside is always a chance due to weather (mainly rain/storms).Opposite here if heat is the issue. People want it inside where it's air conditioned because it can get to 100 degrees here in May and June. Actually, this is an issue that just came up with California State University Sacramento graduation. They are scheduled to graduate at the arena the Sacramento Kings play at, and if the Kings are still in the playoffs in May, the arena won't be available so they will have to use their stadium.
The arena seats almost 18,000 and the stadium 21,000, so not sure if having enough space will be a factor.