*Girls DL Trip* OLD THREAD

((hugs)) bridgette. I remember when I went off to school it was hard and also as I mentioned before when I moved to Washington with my ex-husband leaving my family was SO hard as well. I think you are right, once school starts and you have stuff to keep you busy hopefully it will get a LITTLE easier. I am glad you are getting to meet some of the gals for your birthday. They are all GREAT and you will have a LOT of fun!! :)

Happy Birthday early in case I forget on Thursday! ;)
 
Hugs and puppy patience to Cristabel!!:hug:

Hugs and more motherly hugs to Brigette!!!:hug:

Hugs and peace to Lynn!!:hug:

Hugs and peace to Beth too!:hug:

Hugs to Heather and Nathan! :hug:

More hugs to Cheryl! :hug:

Hope everyone else has a fabulous day!! :goodvibes
 
Gee, I wonder where he got that from? :rotfl2::lmao: I wish you were going to be here too. BTW, I used that $20 Disney bag with wheels on my trip and it was great. It holds more than many of those rectangular bags because their wheel gear takes up so much interior space. It doesn't always wheel perfectly smooth, but hey, for $20... (this promotion may still be on - if you buy $50 of Disney stuff at DL, you can buy this for $20).

Hi Heather! I'm so glad you and Stacie are going to see each other.

I went back east to see some aging relatives and then to NY. The weather was the best I've ever had in the summer there!

Hi Dawn, Cristobel!

I think I got it from him, not the other way around! And they still have that bag, and I think it's buy $40 get it for $15 now. We didn't spend any money at any of the stores, otherwise I would have gotten it.

Excited to see Heather today, not sure what we'll do yet.

I just read through about 20 pages so I'm sorry if I miss anyone... I had to stop at the colonoscopy part. I thought it would be an easy part to remember to pick back up. That sounds so horribe. I remember I went to the ER for a kidney stone a few years ago and they couldn't schedule my surgery until the following night. I was so hungry and the morphine and percocet made my mouth so dry and gave me the munchies. They wouldn't even let me have ice cubes! After surgery I ate a can of chicken noodle soup from the nurses station, about 15 packs of crackers and 6 packs of cheese then my sister-n-law got me a grilled cheese and pickle from the cafeteria. I'm actually hungry right now I might go make a grilled cheese....

I'm praying so hard for you Beth, I know you were worried when you got those tests done. Hopefully you'll be able to understand what they said and I'm sure everything will be just fine. In any case, I'll keep you in my thoughts.

Cheryl, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my kitty just this past Christmas. She was technically my sister's kitty, but we got she and my kitty when I was 6. A few years ago I had to take care of my little Shylet while my parents were out of town (they stayed at home after I moved out) and when my parents got home they went and had her put to sleep without telling me. I was mad at first but I'm so glad they did because I wouldn't have been able to handle it. Then Tazzy lived until 18 1/2 and she just went to sleep in my dad's lap on Christmas. Chase had such a sweet face and your stories reveal his true magic. Stay strong!

Kelly, you're such a strong and brave woman. I admire you for that!

Happy belated birthday to everyone, I know there have been a lot!

Cristabel, I didn't read back too far but I hope the doggy thing got resolved. I prayed really hard for that too! I can't even imagine if that happened with one of mine...

Sorry if I forgot anything else!

Thanks to everyone for being so supportive of my move, hives, and emotions. You all really have brought love and light into my life (*props to Dawn for the quote*) and you have all truly given me so much strength to get through this. I know I haven't met any of you yet, but just knowing that many of you are here made my move so much easier. You don't even know what that means to me :grouphug: I'm having such a hard time right now. I don't miss anyone yet but I'm so homesick I'll just randomly start crying. I went to the service at Trinity Episcopal Church in downtown Santa Barbara (I think Roy Disney got married there... it was the Episcopal church in Santa Barbara) and I recognized the song that the organ played at first and it made me cry. I sang in the church choir at home for years and I had to try so hard not to sob. It's weird because I'm not a big crier, let alone a public crier. I'm just so outside of my comfort zone right now. I hope things get easier when classes start, which is tomorrow morning. Then before I know it I'll be living it up in DTD with some of you!

Night night!

Hi Bridgette, sorry we didn't get to meet up last week, looks like you were there until the 6th and we were there the 7-8. Definitely in October though!

I know what you're going through. I moved out from my mom's home in Michigan to Arizona when I was 24; I had stayed at home to go to college so this was my first time leaving home. It was fun, sad, exciting, all that!! But that was 22 years ago this month, and I know you'll be fine. It just takes time. I remember that soon after I moved into my 1st apartment, I got strep throat! I think I called my mom every day, probably more than once a day. I needed her to come take care of me!!! :cloud9: Then I met my DH 6 months after moving there and as they say, the rest is history!!
 
Good morning, girls!

Bridgette, I'm not that far from you now that you're in SB (maybe 30 minutes at the most?). If you ever need anything or someone to talk/hang out with, I'm here in the 805! PM me if you need to!!
 

Thanks to everyone for being so supportive of my move, hives, and emotions. You all really have brought love and light into my life (*props to Dawn for the quote*) and you have all truly given me so much strength to get through this. I know I haven't met any of you yet, but just knowing that many of you are here made my move so much easier. You don't even know what that means to me :grouphug: I'm having such a hard time right now. I don't miss anyone yet but I'm so homesick I'll just randomly start crying. I went to the service at Trinity Episcopal Church in downtown Santa Barbara (I think Roy Disney got married there... it was the Episcopal church in Santa Barbara) and I recognized the song that the organ played at first and it made me cry. I sang in the church choir at home for years and I had to try so hard not to sob. It's weird because I'm not a big crier, let alone a public crier. I'm just so outside of my comfort zone right now. I hope things get easier when classes start, which is tomorrow morning. Then before I know it I'll be living it up in DTD with some of you!

Night night!

To echo what everyone else said, just about 34 years ago I went away to college and met my roomie who eventually became my sister. She was the one who visited this past weekend. There's an old saying--when one door closes another opens--and that is definitely true. Just hang in there--it will get better once you start school today and start meeting other people. It's hard to be out of your comfort zone but so worth it in the long run. (P.S.--I'm Episcopalian too! But BAAAADDDDDD and haven't been to church in several years)
 
Hi everyone! I'm back and of course I am here before I've even unpacked my bags. :goodvibes I only read back a few pages so I hope everyone is doing well.

Who else is coming Thursday? Is anyone coming in a bit early? I was thinking of avoiding the rush hour and coming in early enough to get a few rides in - like Midway or Buzz. :yay:

Glad you made it home safe.

I'll be there Thursday, but I'm not sure what time yet. I'm hoping one of my sons friends can take him home from football practice so I can get there early. But I'll have the baby so I can't ride the Midway, but I think she may be able to go on buzz???

I only got to ride each one once--the 10-year old wanted to shop! Can you imagine?

Sounds about right ;).

... (this promotion may still be on - if you buy $50 of Disney stuff at DL, you can buy this for $20)

Stacie's right. The promo is now spend $40, get the bag for $15.

Hey all! I'm in the hotel in Phoenix. Nathan and I start our week of intense behavioral training for a research study tomorrow. We are then going to head over to Stacie(lee)'s house, and hang. We have planned to go see Up! at some point this week. I'm excited to see my friend again. The hotel is nice, and we are settled in. Nathan ate dinner at the desk like a big boy. He's doing so well!
Heather

Hope all goes well with the research study :thumbsup2. Have fun with Stacie & look forward to hearing about how it all goes.
 
Thanks to everyone for being so supportive of my move, hives, and emotions. You all really have brought love and light into my life (*props to Dawn for the quote*) and you have all truly given me so much strength to get through this. I know I haven't met any of you yet, but just knowing that many of you are here made my move so much easier. You don't even know what that means to me :grouphug:
This is really a great group of ladies, and you have been a wonderful and welcome addition to it. :grouphug:




Hugs and peace to Beth too!:hug:
Thanks! :goodvibes




Good morning, girls!

Bridgette, I'm not that far from you now that you're in SB (maybe 30 minutes at the most?). If you ever need anything or someone to talk/hang out with, I'm here in the 805! PM me if you need to!!
That would be nice. It's nice to be able to meet up with someone from the group now and then. I hope it works out that you two are able to do that. :wizard:




There's an old saying--when one door closes another opens--and that is definitely true.
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Happy Monday morning to everyone!!
 
Hey everyone :wave:.

I've been a little busy lately watching my nephews. My sisters MIL had a heart attack and usually watches them most of the time. She's stable now, but still in the hospital until they finish tests and decide if they need to do surgery. I was only watching them twice a week before she got sick. They've also been spending the night here and there because of my sisters & BIL's funky work hours.

It's just really hard to get anything done when you're watching 5 kids. I'm all for helping out in times of need, but she really needs to put them in daycare. I still have to concentrate on looking for a job & keeping up with daily tasks around the house & it's becoming overwhelming.

I know if it will be long term my sis will put them in daycare, but for now she is enjoying not having to pay. I thought about asking her for money, but I'm just not good at that sort of thing. Even when people owe me, I never ask.

Just wanted to check in with you all when I had a free minute. Hope everyone is well.
 
Glad you made it home safe.

I'll be there Thursday, but I'm not sure what time yet. I'm hoping one of my sons friends can take him home from football practice so I can get there early. But I'll have the baby so I can't ride the Midway, but I think she may be able to go on buzz???
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Hmm, who knows about that here? I have a morning appt and will leave right after that, so hoping to be there around 12 or 12:30 ish.

Hey everyone :wave:.

I've been a little busy lately watching my nephews. My sisters MIL had a heart attack and usually watches them most of the time. She's stable now, but still in the hospital until they finish tests and decide if they need to do surgery. I was only watching them twice a week before she got sick. They've also been spending the night here and there because of my sisters & BIL's funky work hours.

It's just really hard to get anything done when you're watching 5 kids. I'm all for helping out in times of need, but she really needs to put them in daycare. I still have to concentrate on looking for a job & keeping up with daily tasks around the house & it's becoming overwhelming.

I know if it will be long term my sis will put them in daycare, but for now she is enjoying not having to pay. I thought about asking her for money, but I'm just not good at that sort of thing. Even when people owe me, I never ask.
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Five kids total is a lot. It sounds like you're ready to tell her it's time to either pay you or put them in daycare. We'll help you with the words! :lmao:I gather you've been doing the two days a week w/o any reimbursement. If she didn't offer anything from the start I gotta say my take is that she's taking advantage here... (not just of the emergency, but before).

Oh, they don't want me to have one. I just saw them talking about it on here and wondered aloud if it was something I should look into. But guess not yet. Which is good. I have enough other tests going on right now. lol

Welcome back btw!!
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Thanks!:goodvibes Okay, I'm glad your doctor isn't telling you to have one (but for the record, for anyone else reading, this test is well worth the nuisance - I know people who are alive because of it. It's more than a test - they will remove potential problems.

Beth, I missed exactly what other tests you need. If you want to talk about it, you can PM me.

Hi friends!

The Idol concert was lots of fun. I'm really feeling the love for Matt and Danny!!!

Lucky you!

Cheryl, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Then before I know it I'll be living it up in DTD with some of you!

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Oh dear, Cheryl, I am so sorry to hear this. I know the feeling. :goodvibes

I think I got it from him, not the other way around! And they still have that bag, and I think it's buy $40 get it for $15 now. We didn't spend any money at any of the stores, otherwise I would have gotten it.

Excited to see Heather today, not sure what we'll do yet.
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Oh that's interesting about you getting the Buzz gene from your son. Well, thank him for me because you are the best mentor! :)

I can't believe they made it easier to buy the bag, shoot. Actually I may get one for my husband if I can figure out what I need for $40 at the stores. Maybe if anyone needs something there on Thursday but doesn't want the bag...;)

Everyone have a great day!:dance3:
 
Hello and hugs to everyone. :hug: :wave2: :hug:


We took our boys to Silverwood on Friday and had a great time. We spent most of the day over at the waterpark before hitting some rides later in the afternoon/evening at the themepark. I did get a little sunburned right above my knees on the top of my legs, but other than that I came out good. Boy, my leg muscles are sore though......I'm big-time out of shape! (And I've been gaining weight too. I better bet back on the healthy eating/living bandwagon.) :rolleyes1

But boy is Silverwood expensive! :eek: I thought Disneyland was expensive, but Silverwood is just as bad and in some cases it's worse......and it's no Disneyland, if you know what I mean. Good thing the boys received Silverwood tickets for their birthdays. Otherwise, I don't think we would have went because it's just too freakin' expensive for us right now. I sure as heck wouldn't dip into our Disneyland fund to go to Silverwood.

I'm a little excited for a potential part-time job for my hubby. He sent in a resume yesterday, and he's already received a personal email back from the hiring/human resource guy. (Not one of those canned email responses they send out to all applicants thanking them for their interest blah blah blah, but an actual personal email. We could hardly believe it when we saw it.) The job pertains to traveling to area Home Depots and making sure items are displayed properly, priced properly, and changing the displays if needed to comply with or exceed Home Depot standards. He has over 12 years of management experience in retail (Lowe's and Big R) so he's certainly qualified and VERY knowledgeable. The hours are very flexible, so it would fit in perfectly with his appraisal work (what little appraisal work there is right now). OMGosh, I pray that he gets this job. We need it in the WORST WAY! Everyone please say a little prayer that he gets this.
 
Pixie dust your way from the job fairy, Capri.:wizard:
And Katie, you are a far better person that I. I would not watch anyone's kids for more than a "one time" or "just this week" without compensation. And as the mother of only one, I am sure 5 would push me into the deep end!:laughing:

Hope everyone is having a good Monday.:cutie:
 
We took our boys to Silverwood on Friday and had a great time. We spent most of the day over at the waterpark before hitting some rides later in the afternoon/evening at the themepark. I did get a little sunburned right above my knees on the top of my legs, but other than that I came out good. Boy, my leg muscles are sore though......I'm big-time out of shape! (And I've been gaining weight too. I better bet back on the healthy eating/living bandwagon.) :rolleyes1

But boy is Silverwood expensive! :eek: I thought Disneyland was expensive, but Silverwood is just as bad and in some cases it's worse......and it's no Disneyland, if you know what I mean. Good thing the boys received Silverwood tickets for their birthdays. Otherwise, I don't think we would have went because it's just too freakin' expensive for us right now. I sure as heck wouldn't dip into our Disneyland fund to go to Silverwood.

I'll pray for your family that he gets the extra job :thumbsup2.

And I totally know what you mean about putting on weight. I'm such a fat cow right now & I'm having the hardest time getting back on track.

And Katie, you are a far better person that I. I would not watch anyone's kids for more than a "one time" or "just this week" without compensation. And as the mother of only one, I am sure 5 would push me into the deep end!:laughing:

I know, I'm such a pushover sometimes. I do plan on talking to her on Wednesday since she's off.

It's really only 3 kids I need to keep on top of since my 2 older kids are pretty self sufficient.
 
Capri I am glad you had fun this weekend and got over feeling poorly!! Good luck to your dh. I know we are ALL suffering from this stupid recession so I hope it works out for him and you all!

I am back from work myself and it is SO stressful. We had a really bad June at work and we haven't even paid the rent yet. I went in and there was STILL no commission checks so I just moved things around best I could and paid the bare minimum but Wed is the 15th which means payroll taxes and we have state taxes due to EDD also so it is a particularly harsh month. It is SO stressful trying to pay bills when there is NOTHING coming in. Sometimes I really HATE my job because it is just SO stressful. But it is all I have and I know my mom needs the help. UGH! I just hope it gets better for ALL of us cuz I know I am not the only one who is in this predicament. I just hope this economy turns around soon!

Lynn went off with some boy today to get her packets for school. She claims she has till next Thurs to get it done and she will get her diploma. If NOT then she has to do a whole other term. Somehow I don't know what to believe because she LIES so dang much. She wouldn't BE in this predicament if she hadn't dropped out in the first place and then left to go with that guy to Fresno thus screwing up this continuation etc etc. She claimed she didn't need a work permit because she was out of school but I looked up the info and it says you MUST have one if you are under 18 and DON'T have a diploma. So if she can get it by next week fine but if not then we are back to square one.

I told Shane if she screws this up and doesn't get her diploma next week then she is going to have to get into some kind of continuation down here because we can't keep driving up to Yuba City to deal with this. It is costing a fortune in gas. We had to pay this kid gas money today and we are tight right now because Shane had a short check this past week from missing on the 4th and then having to take a day off for his VA class.

She has come home and been VERY demanding. She went out with 2 different boys to the movies both Sat and yesterday and wanted rides and money for that and then wanted gas money today and is telling us she needs clothes and I feel like saying, and this is MY problem WHY? YOU are the one who left and told us to buzz off and she never wanted to see us again. NOW she is coming back and expecting everyone to do this and do that for her and it is her way or the highway. If she doesn't get everything the way she wants she throws these fits. It is ALREADY getting REALLY old. I told Shane last night either things change or this is NOT going to last.

I don't know we shall see. Everything is going to hinge on what happens at this probation hearing tomorrow morning.

Anyway tonight we have swim and shane is helping his friend with some tile work. Then wed he has a coaches meeting for soccer so he won't be at swim much this week but at least it is our LAST week thank goodness. Then after champs this weekend the only thing we have left is our party next Thur night. Then IF and only IF the girls make Meet of Champs would we have that on the first weekend of Aug but I highly doubt that is going to happen so probably next Thurs is it for us. Then it is SOCCER time! :)

Anyway that's bout it for me. Hope everyone is having a GREAT day. Take care and talk soon!
 
Feels like its been so long since I have been on. Its been so busy around here. The town next to us had their little festival this weekend. My daughter Katelyn was in the parade as one of her last requirements of being Miss Golddust (our city festivals royalty). We are also getting ready for cheer camp and will be hosting the overnighter again and driving them to Ellensburg this weekend. The following week is my son's baseball camp. I think we will finally have a breather after that and then I have my surgery on the 11th of August and out of work for about 5 weeks. Feels like we just started summer!:rotfl2:
 
It's just really hard to get anything done when you're watching 5 kids.

I can imagine! But get this...I have a friend who seems really floaty, but she's actually very good at her life. She has 3 bio kids. She and her husband adopted two more girls from hubby's sister (or all but adopted...never been quite sure, they call her mom but also call her SIL mom).

Her OWN sister re-married, and made an interesting choice...ended up in jail, having JUST had a baby, and her husband was in jail too (for trying to kidnap his kids from a previous marriage), which caused my friend to have to watch something like 6 sort of older kids AND an infant, along with her own 5...then her sis got out of jail, didn't have custody, got pg again, and then jail again...so my friend had her own 5 and her sisters 6 or 8 (lost count) kids.

Fed, clothed (when your'e doing a family foster you get NOTHING from the state, it turns out), and homeschooled all of them. On her hubby's salary (with perhaps some help from her parents). :scared:

Thankfully now (about 2 years of that stuff) her sister's kids are with her parents, which took some time b/c they are out of state and the state didn't much like that. So she's back to "just" her own 5.

I faint too when I think of it....when I think of how hard Eamon has been on me and how glad I've been, in retrospect, to have only him so far...definitely humbling for me.


I'm a little excited for a potential part-time job for my hubby. He sent in a resume yesterday, and he's already received a personal email back from the hiring/human resource guy. (Not one of those canned email responses they send out to all applicants thanking them for their interest blah blah blah, but an actual personal email. We could hardly believe it when we saw it.) The job pertains to traveling to area Home Depots and making sure items are displayed properly, priced properly, and changing the displays if needed to comply with or exceed Home Depot standards. He has over 12 years of management experience in retail (Lowe's and Big R) so he's certainly qualified and VERY knowledgeable. The hours are very flexible, so it would fit in perfectly with his appraisal work (what little appraisal work there is right now). OMGosh, I pray that he gets this job. We need it in the WORST WAY! Everyone please say a little prayer that he gets this.

Good luck to hubby, go hubby, go hubby, woooo!


Sometimes I think doctors think of tests to send people off to....like they get a commission for every test they refer to.

Jeez, if only hubster had found one of THOSE people in the last 3 years! :upsidedow

Testosterone. The doctor sent my prescription to a compounding pharmacy so it was made for my low level. It's also supposed to help sleep problems. The normal level is supposed to be 60-150 and mine was 37.

Interesting.... Did a quick google and it seems to show that low sleep causes low testosterone, but that's in men. So maybe it's reverse in women.

All I know is that it is INTERESTING because Robert has always needed almost no sleep. When I met him and we got to the point where he might have been sleeping next to me, I used to wake up to him looking at me sleep, because he really only needed 3 hours of sleep. And here we are, with him having a level of 40... And he can't even take plain old testosterone, because taking that, his endo says, would cause him to be totally sterile (temporarily), which would be the exact opposite of what we're trying for, LOL.




Cheryl, I haven't scrolled back to what exactly we're sorry about, but I assume one of your pets is no longer...I'm so so sorry. And he even had a family name on my dad's side...sniffle sniffle.



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Could someone come by and help me organize? Robert's about to start a new job (yes! again! and it's even amazon! again!) so he'll be of no help, but we'll likely be moving in September and I do NOT want to move crap again! I have to organize things!!! Especially b/c I have to sit and figure out the healthcare stuff...bills that have yet to be billed, bills that need to be paid, and projecting forward until the end of March to figure out what plan we should sign up for. We'd finished up his deductible with the old plan, we've been on COBRA this month, then of course August we start again, with the SAME company, but we have to start over, argh. Trying to work out premium cost vs deductible cost etc etc etc..I'm so disorganized that I can't even figure out what I need to figure out!


However, Eamon finally finished his Kumon 3,4,5 y.o. number book, numbers 1-30. Yay! And I say "finally" because he started it 1.5 years ago, when he started insisting that he get workbooks. Nutty boy. :)
 
I am soooo in the planning mood! I really would like some room mates though. I am willing to stay either GCH or Howard Johnsons! Can't wait for February!:cheer2:

I even ordered my tie dyed shirt today! LOL
 


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